The Link Between High-Performing Women + Abusive Relationships

High-achieving women don’t fall for the narcissist or abuser because they’re naive. They’re targeted because they shine.

In this episode, bestselling author turned global speaker Marysol James joins us to map the quiet mechanics of narcissistic abuse, why top performers are so often in the blast zone, and how the fallout shows up at work as missed deadlines, muted voices, and surprise resignations.

We unpack the slow-boil dynamics, the double hit of shame, and what trauma-aware leadership looks like in practice. Smart, clear, compassionate. No tip-toeing.

This one is tender and fierce - please be aware that we are talking about the sensitive topic of domestic abuse that may be upsetting for some.

If you lead teams, coach talent, or care about retention, bring a notebook.

About Marysol James:
Marysol James is a bestselling romance author turned global speaker and coach, known for helping high-achieving women heal from narcissistic abuse and reclaim the clarity, confidence, and success they deserve. With an MA in International Business, 32 bestselling novels, and a career that’s spanned continents, she understands both the power of female ambition and the quiet forces that can unravel it.

A survivor of a six-year covertly abusive relationship, Marysol rebuilt her life and business from the ground up. Today, she works with companies that employ and invest in high-performing women - partnering with leadership teams, HR professionals, and people-first organisations to protect talent, revenue, and culture.

Connect with Marysol:
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https://www.linkedin.com/in/marysol-james-34b85b313/
https://www.youtube.com/@MarysolJames-s6q
https://www.instagram.com/marysoljames/

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