33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

Vera learned early how to read a room.

How to sense shifts.

How to stay alert, often more attuned to others than to herself.


In this episode, we explore the quiet presence of shame, the kind that doesn’t shout, but gently pulls the body away from desire, closeness, and rest. Shame around wanting. Around being seen. Around taking up space in intimacy.


Vera shares what it’s like to move between longing and withdrawal, presence and disappearance. To want connection and still feel the impulse to step back when things begin to deepen.


Mor joins the conversation, offering reflections and commentary that add another layer, naming patterns, softening judgments and holding space for what shame often silences.


This episode is about:

– how shame lives in the body

– how safety changes desire

– how intimacy isn’t created through performance, but through permission and how staying can sometimes be the bravest act of all


A conversation without urgency.

Without fixing.

Just honest presence, listening, and truth.

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44. The Space Between Us: The Moment Where Intimacy Begins

44. The Space Between Us: The Moment Where Intimacy Begins

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43. Healing Self-Doubt: The voice in our head is not who we are

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42. Queering Masculinity: Consent, Power & Reclaiming the Body | Katherine Wela Bogen

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41. Elana: The Sure Thing

41. Elana: The Sure Thing

What happens when intimacy stops being spontaneous and starts being intentional?In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Elana, who shares how a simple weekly ritual — what she calls The Sure Thing — tra...

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40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

In part one, we explored how love begins to collapse when pain isn’t met and how self-protection quietly replaces contact.In this second part, the conversation turns toward what actually allows intima...

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39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

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38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik sits down with Bonnie Diaz, world-class ballroom champion, master educator, and creator of the 4D Partnership System, to explore what true connection really looks like, ...

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