Vulnerability Is Hot: Sex, Masculinity, & Oversharing (ft. Emi Larraud)

Vulnerability Is Hot: Sex, Masculinity, & Oversharing (ft. Emi Larraud)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with musician and content creator Emi Larraud for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about vulnerability, masculinity, oversharing on the internet, and why emotional availability makes men more desirable and better lovers. From shitting yourself on the subway to tips on how to be more vulnerable, this episode explores how being human, communicative, and emotionally present leads to better sex, safer intimacy, and more meaningful connections.


In this episode, Alexa and Emi discuss:

  • Masculinity, patriarchy, and how it harms men
  • Why toughness, aggression, and emotional suppression are not attractive
  • Healthy masculinity and being raised with emotional permission
  • Men crying, expressing emotions, and being fully human
  • How emotional openness improves dating and sex
  • Why men shouldn’t center other men’s approval
  • Seeking male validation vs caring what women actually want
  • Listening to women instead of guessing what they want
  • Being bisexual and how that shaped Emi’s perspective on intimacy
  • The hot take: men who refuse to eat pussy are kinda gay
  • Why vulnerability filters out the wrong people
  • Getting approached more after being emotionally open
  • Emotional growth through therapy
  • Holding male friends accountable for harmful jokes
  • Sex, intimacy, and performance anxiety
  • Feeling pressure to perform sexually
  • Liking women vs just wanting to fuck them


Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Take their quiz to start your journey. https://beducate.me/pd2602-alexa


Thank you Splash Blanket for keeping my guests cozy and mess-free <3


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