HYSTERICAL BONDING: Why you want them MORE after they hurt you. 💔
Have you ever discovered a betrayal—infidelity, a lie, or a discard—and suddenly felt a surge of intense desire to be close to the person who hurt you? That isn’t love—it’s Hysterical Bonding.Hysteric...
21 Helmi 12min
THE AWAKENING: Why you see narcissists everywhere now. 🛡️
ou finally figured out your partner was a narcissist—and then you looked at your parents. Then your friends. Then your boss.It’s called the "Awakening," and it is one of the most overwhelming parts of...
20 Helmi 21min
Why Narcissists Target STRONGER People (The High-Value Choice)
If you were targeted by a narcissist, it wasn't because you were weak. Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains why self-aware narcissists look for high-value, resilient targets to consume.Connect with ...
19 Helmi 13min
I Set a Boundary... Now What? (Dealing with the Fallout Of A Narcissist)
The fallout of a boundary is usually a war. Here is how to survive it.You watched yesterday’s video on the 3 Ways to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist, but now you’re living through the reaction. Why d...
18 Helmi 29min
"I Didn't Forget, I Just Don't Care" | Why Narcissists Rewrite History
Why does a narcissist "forget" their promises? Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains the truth behind "Narcissistic Amnesia." It's not a memory problem—it's a lack of accountability.Connect with Lee:...
17 Helmi 13min
The Valentine’s Fallout: Why they ruined it (and what I'm thinking today)
The high is over. The "holiday" is gone. Now comes the fallout.If you woke up today to the silent treatment, a cold shoulder, or a partner who is acting like the chaos of yesterday never happened—you ...
16 Helmi 24min
When Gray Rocking a narcissist no longer works
When you stop giving a narcissist "supply," they don't just walk away quietly. They enter an "Extinction Burst." As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains why the behavior get...
15 Helmi 12min
Why I HAD To Ruin Your Valentine’s Day (A Narcissist's Confession)
In this video, we discuss:The Spotlight Struggle: Why your joy feels like a threat to my ego.The Obligation Trap: Why being "forced" to be romantic makes a narcissist want to rebel.Devaluation as a To...
14 Helmi 14min
