212: Never Mind My Bollocks: Talking Vasectomy, Masculinity & Myths

212: Never Mind My Bollocks: Talking Vasectomy, Masculinity & Myths

Let’s talk bollocks — literally. In this candid and funny episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa chats with Kurt Brookes and James McConnell, co-hosts of the bold new podcast Never Mind My Bollocks, produced by Made in Manchester. Together, they’re breaking the silence around vasectomy — a topic often buried in myths, awkwardness, and outdated notions of masculinity.

Kurt, a comedy creator, and James, an NHS scientist and geneticist, bring their lived experience and friendship to the mic. What started as a casual post-comedy-night confession (“You’ve had one too?!”) became a mission to normalise the conversation about vasectomy — with honesty, humour, and zero shame.

From misconceptions about “losing your manhood” to the truth about recovery, ejaculation, and “blue balls,” this episode goes where most won’t — cutting through the misinformation with science, storytelling, and a laugh or two.

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • How Never Mind My Bollocks began and why the world needs to talk about vasectomy
  • Myths that persist: masculinity, testosterone, and “dry orgasms”
  • What really happens before, during, and after the snip
  • Why vasectomy doesn’t make you “less of a man”
  • Lived experience vs. medical expertise — and why both matter
  • Common misconceptions around reversibility, chronic pain, and recovery
  • How humour helps break taboo around men’s sexual health
  • Kurt Brookes is Deputy Creative Director at Made in Manchester. James McConnell is a geneticist and allied health professional working within the NHS. Together, they created Never Mind My Bollocks to make vasectomy conversations real, relatable, and stigma-free — sharing stories from men and experts alike to help others make informed choices about their reproductive health.

Listen to Never Mind My Bollocks on all major podcast platforms.

Key Takeaway: Talking about vasectomy shouldn’t be taboo. Kurt and James remind us that openness — not silence — is the real sign of strength.

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