George Saunders On: Getting Un-Stuck, Calming the Inner Critic, and Building Empathy Without Becoming a Chump

George Saunders On: Getting Un-Stuck, Calming the Inner Critic, and Building Empathy Without Becoming a Chump

A conversation with celebrated author George Saunders about his new novel, Vigil, and what fiction can teach us about empathy, self-awareness, and mortality.

George Saunders is the bestselling, award-winning author of Lincoln in the Bardo, Tenth of December, and many other books. His new novel, Vigil, tells the story of a woman who died in 1976 and has spent the decades since comforting the dying—until she encounters a former oil executive responsible for early climate change denial.

In this conversation, Dan and George talk about:

  • Why George keeps writing about ghosts and the afterlife (hint: it's not just about mortality dread)

  • The lavish empathy at the heart of Vigil—and whether we should extend that empathy even to people doing civilizational damage

  • What George calls "warm metacognition"—the practice of dropping back out of your thought loops to examine what kind of goggles you're wearing

  • How fiction can turn your mind into a "reconsideration machine" (and why that matters in real life)

  • The difference between kindness and niceness

  • George's relationship with death anxiety, which he's had since childhood and which has only intensified with age

  • What George has learned about listening from teaching and hosting his Substack, Story Club

  • Why the older he gets, the more important it is to stretch himself creatively

  • His advice for dealing with stuckness (in writing and in life): curiosity over self-accusation

George's new novel Vigil is out January 27th from Random House. Check out his Substack, Story Club, where he discusses classic short stories with an incredibly thoughtful community.

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