We Need to Talk About the Promises You Keep Failing (Seriously) — Lyuibim Kogan | Ep 62

In this episode, I dive into the real power of keeping promises, both to ourselves and others, with my guest Lubim Kogan. Lubim is a first-generation immigrant, Olympian, and the heart behind Wings for Heroes, a mission helping amputee and disabled veterans rediscover dignity and adventure through paragliding and healing environments.

We explore why trust is built on small, everyday promises and how breaking them can create chaos—at work, at home, and within ourselves. Lubim shares the personal quote that’s shaped his life: “It’s easy to make promises, but it’s hard to keep them.” Together, we reflect on self-esteem, responsibility, and how doing simple things like showing up can change lives.

You’ll also hear lessons about the Wings for Heroes mission, stories of courage, and real talk about how keeping our word means so much more than we realize. Keywords include trust, promises, self-esteem, Wings for Heroes, and paragliding.

Tune in and discover why the promises you make—especially to yourself—just might matter more than you think

Connect with Lyuibim Kogan

In this episode, Lubim Kogan shares insights on the power of promises and introduces his mission supporting amputee veterans through Wings for Heroes. To learn more about his impactful work and find inspiring stories and videos, visit wings4heroes.org.

Twitter: https://x.com/WingsForHeroes

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Chapters

00:00 – The Value and Impact of Promises
01:07 – Introducing Lubim Kogan & Wings for Heroes
02:32 – The Mission: Paragliding and Healing for Veterans
04:27 – Foundations of Trust and Societal Promises
06:29 – Why We Make Promises
09:07 – Consequences of Broken Promises
12:37 – Personal Integrity & Self-Promises
17:48 – Wings for Heroes: Philosophy and Operations
20:43 – Expanding the Mission and Celebrating Milestones