265. How to Handle Urges That Keep Coming Back

265. How to Handle Urges That Keep Coming Back

Why do urges seem to disappear, only to come right back? If you’ve ever processed an urge and then felt discouraged when it returned, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening. I’m talking about urge flow, the natural pattern of urges coming and going, and why this is not a sign that you’re doing it wrong. It is part of learning how to handle them in a new way.

When you stop relying on willpower and start allowing urges instead of resisting them, they will ebb and flow. The goal is not to make them vanish. The goal is to become someone who can feel discomfort without reacting to it. In this episode, I share why trying to force urges away keeps you stuck and how building the skill of processing them creates real strength and confidence.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/handle-urges-keep-coming-back

Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://sarabrewer.com/masterclass

Tämä jakso on lisätty Podme-palveluun avoimen RSS-syötteen kautta eikä se ole Podmen omaa tuotantoa. Siksi jakso saattaa sisältää mainontaa.

Jaksot(285)

284. What if I’m Single, Divorced, or in a Sexless Marriage? Can I Still Befriend My Sexuality? (Part 4)

284. What if I’m Single, Divorced, or in a Sexless Marriage? Can I Still Befriend My Sexuality? (Part 4)

What’s possible when your sexuality belongs to you first? In this episode, I address a common question for those who are single, divorced, or in a sexless marriage: can you still befriend your sexuali...

29 Kesä 24min

283. What's Possible When You Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 3 of 3)

283. What's Possible When You Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 3 of 3)

What’s possible when you stop running from your sexual urges? In the third episode of this series on befriending your sexuality, I explore how shame and avoidance create conflict around sexual energy ...

22 Kesä 29min

282. The Number One Thing Required to Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 2 of 3)

282. The Number One Thing Required to Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 2 of 3)

What if the way you’ve been approaching your sexuality has been keeping you stuck? In this second episode of a three-part series on befriending your sexuality, I explain why most strategies fail and h...

15 Kesä 27min

281. What I Got Wrong About Quitting Porn (Part 1 of 3)

281. What I Got Wrong About Quitting Porn (Part 1 of 3)

What if the way you thought about quitting porn was holding you back? In this first episode of a three-part series, I explore common misconceptions about quitting pornography and why the strategies mo...

8 Kesä 29min

280. What’s Possible with Sam

280. What’s Possible with Sam

Do you feel like lasting change is impossible after years of struggle with pornography? In this episode, Sam shares his story of decades of challenges, including trying a 12-step program and thinking ...

1 Kesä 37min

279. Overcoming Sexual Shame While Quitting Porn

279. Overcoming Sexual Shame While Quitting Porn

Do you feel shame about your sexual thoughts or desires while trying to quit pornography? In this episode, I explore why sexual shame often causes more harm than pornography itself and how you can mov...

25 Touko 29min

278. Using the Rules of Improv in Quitting Porn with Kat

278. Using the Rules of Improv in Quitting Porn with Kat

What can improv teach you about overcoming pornography? In this episode, coach Kat Jenkins shares how the principles of improv can be applied to quitting porn and navigating the challenges that come w...

18 Touko 23min

277. How to Handle Slip-Ups Without Shame

277. How to Handle Slip-Ups Without Shame

What happens after a slip-up can determine whether you stay stuck or finally make real progress. In this episode, I break down why slip-ups do not mean failure and how your response afterward can eith...

11 Touko 19min

Suosittua kategoriassa Uskonto ja hengellisyys

yopuolen-tarinoita-2
kulttien-johdossa
lahko
rss-lakeuden-valo
voi-hyvin-meditaatiot-2
rss-valo-minussa-2
rss-yopuolen-tarinoita
harhaoppia
rss-vapaudu-voimaasi
astropodia
rss-seuraa-sieluasi
rss-verkosto
rss-sinivalkoinen-islam
rss-miehen-mieli-podcast
rss-kujalla
rss-miesta-vakevampi
rss-mukillinen-motivaatiota
rss-mieletonta-elamaa
rss-tarot-oivallusten-kortit
rss-saarnapodi