
238. When to Say "I Love You" (And Should You Say It First?)
I'm sharing my experiences with saying "I love you" for the first time, from awkwardly blurting it out in a noisy subway station to intentionally saying it over the phone. I'm covering the signs you'r...
17 Helmi 26min

237. Surviving the Worst Parts of Dating w/ Rory Uphold
I'm chatting with Rory Uphold, a writer and the author of The Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating, a book that uses the horror movie framework to help people navigate modern dating. We're disc...
13 Helmi 57min

236. When to Move In (And What No One Tells You About Living Together)
You know you want to be with your partner for a long time, but how do you know when to move in? Today I'm sharing everything I've learned about moving in with a partner, from knowing when you're ready...
10 Helmi 34min

235. Dating Red Flags That Predict Domestic Inequity w/ Laura Danger
Author and educator Laura Danger (@thatdarnchat) brought weaponized incompetence and the nag paradox into the mainstream, and today she's here to talk about how these dynamics can show up way before y...
6 Helmi 53min

234. "His Best Friend Is A Woman. Is That A Red Flag?"
Feeling uneasy about your partner's friendship with someone of the opposite sex? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm breaking down what that jealousy actually means, when it's a you problem vs. a r...
3 Helmi 24min

233. Why You Obsess Over Someone You Barely Know w/ Sabrina Bendory
Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached: How to Let Go, Heal and Become Irresistible, joins me to break down what detached dating actually means (hint: it's not about not caring). We get into why you keep...
30 Tammi 56min

232. Are You Staying for the Right Reasons? (Dating Dilemmas)
I'm answering four real dating dilemmas from listeners stuck on whether to stay or leave a relationship. I get into how to end a medium-term relationship, what to do when you've been on the fence for ...
27 Tammi 34min

231. What We Get Wrong About Avoidant Attachment w/ Travis Ambrose
I'm chatting with Travis Ambrose, an attachment-focused coach who specializes in helping people on the avoidant end of the spectrum heal and build healthier relationships. We're discussing everything ...
23 Tammi 48min





















