S2 Ep. 47 | Why You're Still Exhausted Even When You're Doing the Work with Debbie Heiser

S2 Ep. 47 | Why You're Still Exhausted Even When You're Doing the Work with Debbie Heiser

You're doing the inner work. You're reading the books, showing up to the coaching calls, saying yes to growth. So why does it still feel so heavy?


That question comes up in my community more than almost any other, and it's exactly what Debbie Heiser and I get into in this episode. Debbie is the founder of The Lit Up Life and brings over 25 years of experience in corporate leadership, entrepreneurship, neuroscience, and transformational coaching. She helps purpose-driven women reconnect with who they are and build lives and businesses that feel meaningful and sustainable. She also teaches leadership at Gonzaga University, and honestly, this conversation is a masterclass.


What you'll take away from this episode:

  • Why fear and excitement feel identical in your body and how that's silently draining your energy

  • How subconscious beliefs and generational patterns keep you stuck even when you're actively growing

  • Why the things that used to fill your cup may only be bringing you back to neutral right now

  • The real cost of over-giving and why saying no without explanation is a nervous system regulation tool

  • Why receiving is harder than achieving for most women and how to start shifting that


If this conversation lands for you, share it with a woman in your life who is doing all the work and still wondering why she's tired. She needs this one.


Meet Debbie Heiser

Debbie Heiser is the founder of The Lit Up Life, where she helps purpose-driven women reconnect with their identity, reclaim their brilliance, and build businesses that are both financially abundant and deeply meaningful. With over 25 years of experience spanning corporate leadership, entrepreneurship, neuroscience, and transformational coaching, she brings a whole-person approach to success. Debbie also teaches leadership at Gonzaga University, guiding students in values-based leadership and conscious decision-making. Her work isn't about fixing women. It's about activating them to lead, attract, and create from who they truly are.


Website: https://leadyourlituplife.com

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