SS 223: The Genital Spectacle - Learning to Like Our Bits

SS 223: The Genital Spectacle - Learning to Like Our Bits

Whether you had to find a mirror to see yours or you could just look down and not miss it, we've all had first encounters with our bits, you know, our genitals. In a culture that espouses a specific body ideal, we can't escape wondering if even our most private parts hold up by comparison. Bodies are amazing because of diversity not despite it. In this episode, Cooper, Ginger, Dylan and Katie Mack discuss how body positivity wins the day.

To SheVibe: Thank you! Your magazine cover is … without too much hyperbole… possibly the greatest thing that has ever happened. It’s amazing and we will show our appreciation at every opportunity. We dedicate this episode to you.

We discuss a couple email responses to the following letters (warning: politics ahead):

Cooper... Cooper... Cooper... I'm disappointed. I listen to your podcast regularly and am a fan. But as a Kinkster/swinger/conservative I have to say I was saddened by your recent spewing of vitriol towards anyone who doesn't believe as you believe.

For background.... I am a straight, polyamorous, loving dominant male. I was raised with 4 sisters by parents that instilled common courtesy and respect. From the day I started studying about alternative lifestyles, I was repeatedly reminded that "My kink is not your kink". I understood that as a clear directive to not be derisive towards another's proclivities. As long as it was safe sane and consensual, more power to them. I may not know all the intricacies of their dynamic and it wasn't my job to pass judgement. I had hoped for the same kind of inclusion and acceptance from your podcast. Your dismissive attitude towards Christians and republicans was quite disconcerting. Your right to be an Atheist does not preclude another from believing in the "fairy tales" they hold dear. Your right to vote based on a woman's choice of what to do with their body does not preclude another from believing that bigger government will NOT ensure the rights of the individual are protected and/or provided for. With the history of Conrail, the Postal Service and Veterans Hospitals as examples, I'm more convinced than ever that the answer lies in the community rather than a larger ineffective centralized governments control.

I'm sure you don't want to hear my political leanings any more than I want to hear about your epic prostate orgasm. That being said, I would never denigrate you for your kink or political affiliations.

And to Dylan:

Just finished LotSS 220, and I wanted to write in with a comment on Dylan's suggestion for a family-friendly sexy vacation destination.

While he's anxiously waiting for Disney Cruise Lines to launch their Multi-Tier Mascot Mediterranean Fuckboat, his suggestion of a build-your-own vacation is workable, with one caveat; expecting a gathering of children to make it through the night without finding -something- they think they need an adult for, especially when it's super important that they stay away, is utter folly, no matter how much you pay the kids who are ostensibly in charge. But this is a problem that can be solved by logistics. If you know you have N couples with children who would be up for a sexy vacation (I am assuming you are on the board of the Homeowners Association to have access to that sort of info) you book your hotel rooms for at least N nights. Each couple then volunteers to watch the kids during one evening while the rest of the party congregates at a room at an entirely different hotel for sexy times. That way, every adult gets at least N-1 opportunities to participate, the kids get N awesome sleepover-like parties, and nobody has to leave their kids under the care of someone they don't trust enough to show their junk to.

Remember, it takes a village to raise an orgy.

Jaksot(431)

SS 106: It's Naked Party Time - Throwing a Sexy Party with Guest Reid Mihalko

SS 106: It's Naked Party Time - Throwing a Sexy Party with Guest Reid Mihalko

Cooper and Dylan throw some great swinger parties, but not always by design. Much like their journey into non-monogamy, a combination of moxie, trial and error, and luck has combined to create some wonderful stories. Reid Mihalko on the other hand has spent time and effort learning how carefully crafting group dynamics create the best chance of worthwhile parties for everyone, and not necessarily just with swingers. He joins us tonight for a discussion on sexy parties! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the G-Spotter Pop Top Deluxe Silicone Hitachi Attachment! Follow Reid Mihalko on Twitter at @ReidAboutSex and check out his website at ReidAboutSex.com! Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

18 Helmi 20131h 9min

SS 105: In The Butt - Prostate Play & Anal Sex - Guests: Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian

SS 105: In The Butt - Prostate Play & Anal Sex - Guests: Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian

butts. prostates, both male and female. We're talking all about the rear, from preparation to insertion to orgasm and beyond! Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure join us to chat about anal sex, and what it means for men to be on the receiving end of penetrative sex. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Fuze Halo Buttplug! Check out The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, by Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

11 Helmi 20131h 9min

SS 104: Confidence Is Like A Magic Wand - Building Confidence and Using It

SS 104: Confidence Is Like A Magic Wand - Building Confidence and Using It

After Shira tells us a bizarre story of having her upper lip devoured by a creeper at a club, Cooper talks about falling in love. This leads to a discussion on his developing confidence, and then to the broader topic of how to be confident, how to build it, and how to wield it.   [powerpress] Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Silicone Bit Gag by Spartacus Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

4 Helmi 201352min

SS 103: Sex & God - Religion, Swinging, Polyamory, & Sin with Darrel Ray

SS 103: Sex & God - Religion, Swinging, Polyamory, & Sin with Darrel Ray

"Hey Cooper... tell us how you really feel!" "Well alright then."  We've discussed organized religion and how it's affected our own relationship with sexuality, how it influences our community as a whole and... at times, indelicately pointed out where we take issue with its monopoly on morality and its right to judge what's acceptable and what's not.  We finally said fuck it, threw up our arms, and invited Darrel Ray, author of the books The God Virus: How Religion Affects Our Lives and Culture, and Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality to join us for a discussion on how we really feel, what we see on a day to day basis, and how we can move forward and still live and love those who believe, even if we disagree. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Feeldoe! Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket! Sex and Secularism, The Report at IPCPress.com Study: Non-monogamous couples are as happy as other couples - Salon.com Want! Will... Won't. Chart

28 Tammi 20131h 8min

SS 102: Sex Positive Community Building & Conferences - Guest Dee Dennis from CatalystCon East

SS 102: Sex Positive Community Building & Conferences - Guest Dee Dennis from CatalystCon East

Dee Dennis decided to join us for a discussion on building sex positive communities (and the perils within doing so), and how to translate that into a great conference experience! It's apropos as she's also the founder of CatalystCon so... we chat about that just a little bit. :)Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Aneros Helix Prostate Massager!Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

21 Tammi 20131h 16min

SS 101: Introduction to Progressive Swinging

SS 101: Introduction to Progressive Swinging

For Episode 101 we thought giving a brief "101" lecture on Progressive Swinging felt right. So, we reintroduce and define what we mean by Progressive Swinging, and give you the very basics; what you need, what to expect, and how to proceed. We've approached the basics before, communication, introductions, prep work, but this time with give it to you with a different goal in mind, how to enter into Progressive Swinging. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the String Along Thong! Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming!

14 Tammi 20131h 10min

SS 100: Looking Back, and Forward to Another 100 Episodes

SS 100: Looking Back, and Forward to Another 100 Episodes

This... is episode 100. We thank our guests, our previous co-hosts, we yell at each other, unbridled chaos abounds everywhere. It's a full 90 minutes of the four of us enjoying each other. Pure joy, true love... To another 100 episodes we go! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount!

1 Tammi 20131h 30min

SS Special: Origin Stories: My Journey into Non-Monogamy, a Dylan Story

SS Special: Origin Stories: My Journey into Non-Monogamy, a Dylan Story

Not all of you have been listening weekly for three years (probably... maybe) so by extension, not all of you know how we got here and what we lived through before we discovered these lifestyles we lead. So I'm Dylan, and I'm telling you my story, now. It's long, I spend the first ten minutes talking about pubescent erections but it all leads somewhere, and if you're interested... I'll take you on my little journey through the dark ages of my own sexuality and into my non-monogamy. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount!

31 Joulu 20121h 29min

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