SS 256: Smoothing Re-Entry, When Our Partners Date or Play Without Us

SS 256: Smoothing Re-Entry, When Our Partners Date or Play Without Us

All three of us here on the Swingset have occasionally dated and played independent of our partners, and all three of our partners have dated and played independent of us. A moment that can be tricky, especially early on in the swinging or poly lifestyles, is that moment of re-entry, where our partner (or us) returns from a date or play session. We take time to dissect how re-entry feels when you're the partner "left behind", and when you're the partner on the go.

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Today's podcast featured music from the Haywyre album: Two Fold Pt. 1: Doppelgänger, and Voice of Reason.

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SS 006: Those Are The Rules – Defining Your Rules as Swingers

SS 006: Those Are The Rules – Defining Your Rules as Swingers

In Episode 6, the team discusses the importance of having rules in the swinging lifestyle, what's allowed and what isn't, what needs to be discussed beforehand and what doesn't.  We also talk about wh...

24 Touko 201036min

SS 005: Soft Swap VS Full Swap

SS 005: Soft Swap VS Full Swap

In Episode 5, we talk about the two major terms in the swinging community, soft swap (play but no intercourse with the opposite partner) or full (everybody gets laid) and discuss the complexities in d...

10 Touko 201035min

SS 004: Compersion VS Jealousy – Swingers Deal With Jealousy

SS 004: Compersion VS Jealousy – Swingers Deal With Jealousy

In Episode 4, we discuss compersion, the term that finds you experiencing pleasure because your partner is experiencing pleasure, versus jealousy, a term we all know. The Swingset gang discusses how t...

29 Huhti 201036min

SS 003: Sad State of Affairs – Swinging in America

SS 003: Sad State of Affairs – Swinging in America

In episode 3 we discuss the sad state of affairs American conciousness is at regarding sexuality, from the RNC's new lesbian-bondage-strippergate, to sex ed, to the pros and cons of staying in the clo...

14 Huhti 201041min

SS 002: Birds of a Feather – Finding Other Swingers

SS 002: Birds of a Feather – Finding Other Swingers

In our second episode, we continue our logistics of getting into the lifestyle with a look at finding friends and admitting to them and yourself that you want to...well...have sex with them. We discus...

18 Maalis 201044min

SS 001: Dipping a Toe In – How To Start Swinging

SS 001: Dipping a Toe In – How To Start Swinging

In our first podcast we discuss the very beginnings of what to do when you think you may want to have an open relationship. We talk in detail about dealing with that idea yourself and deciding if open...

4 Maalis 201046min

SS 000: Swinging For Dummies I – Realizing You're Non-Monogamous

SS 000: Swinging For Dummies I – Realizing You're Non-Monogamous

Realizing that our first episode doesn't deal with the first thoughts about non-monogamy nearly as well as episode 59, released two years later, we thought we'd rejigger the episodes up and add a Swin...

1 Maalis 20101h 1min

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