SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 294: Game Changers: When Awesome People Upset our Carefully Planned Lives

SS 294: Game Changers: When Awesome People Upset our Carefully Planned Lives

Non-monogamy definitely ups the ante on BUSY, which causes many of us to try to organize and plan our lives as carefully as possible. We say things like "I'm not going to date anyone new right now, or...

15 Heinä 20171h 21min

SS 293: Long Distance Relationships & Keeping it Sexy

SS 293: Long Distance Relationships & Keeping it Sexy

We have a habit here of finding people fascinating on social media and at conferences, and so often they seem to live so very far away... like many members of the Swingset. Mike Joseph, Cooper S. Beck...

7 Heinä 20171h 20min

SS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on Earth

SS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on Earth

Over the last five years, the Swingset has seen first hand the glorious moments and difficulties of building our own community on our trips to the most pleasurable place on earth at Desire Resort in C...

22 Kesä 20171h 14min

SS 291: Planning an Orgy - The Dynamics of Group Sex

SS 291: Planning an Orgy - The Dynamics of Group Sex

In traditional one on one sex, you pretty much know who you'll be engaging with, but when that complexity deepens to three, four, five or more (which is where we switch to the term orgy) there are a l...

14 Kesä 20171h 10min

SS 290: Gang Bang the Mailbag 33 - My Wife and I, the Sequel

SS 290: Gang Bang the Mailbag 33 - My Wife and I, the Sequel

We're Gang Banging the Mailbag once again, it is in fact our 33rd time! Today, Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, Dr. Liz Powell, and Dylan Thomas answer your listener questions! Also, Dylan wants to thr...

8 Kesä 20171h 23min

SS 289: Gang Bang the Mailbag 32 - "My Wife and I"

SS 289: Gang Bang the Mailbag 32 - "My Wife and I"

Eighteen episodes is the longest we've ever gone without a listener mailbag episode, so tonight we've dug in deep with a new collection of listener questions including a highly coveted voicemail (573-...

31 Touko 20171h 12min

SS 288: Masturbation - Our Touching Origins!

SS 288: Masturbation - Our Touching Origins!

For many of us, masturbation is one of the first things to go when we're depressed. Tonight we're going to explore the flipside of our full throttled self love. The hows the whys the whens, on this ep...

25 Touko 20171h 11min

SS 287: Why In The Butt? The Joy of Anal Sex

SS 287: Why In The Butt? The Joy of Anal Sex

We talk about butts bunches. Many of us enjoy putting things in our butts. Some of us wish we enjoyed it. What we don't often get into is the whys of butt play, how to make it better, how to explore i...

17 Touko 20171h 8min

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