SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 216: Dating - Being Right With and Doing Right By Your People

SS 216: Dating - Being Right With and Doing Right By Your People

We all go on dates. Maybe it's a play date with another sexy couple. Maybe it's a romantic getaway with a partner we only see every couple months. Maybe it's a night of taking off your clothes and cle...

13 Heinä 20151h 8min

SS 215: Successful Disengagement - Stepping Back Gracefully

SS 215: Successful Disengagement - Stepping Back Gracefully

We've all been in situations that we were really... REALLY eager to be in.... then realize in the moment maybe we don't want to be in this particular situation but you like everyone involved and you d...

8 Heinä 20151h 6min

SS 214: Secrecy, Privacy in Swinging & Polyamory

SS 214: Secrecy, Privacy in Swinging & Polyamory

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29 Kesä 20151h 11min

SS 213: Gang Bang the Mailbag 21 – Now 100% Legal!

SS 213: Gang Bang the Mailbag 21 – Now 100% Legal!

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19 Kesä 20151h 1min

SS 212: Gang Bang the Mailbag 20

SS 212: Gang Bang the Mailbag 20

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12 Kesä 20151h 5min

SS 211: Ghosts of Swingset Past - Life on the Swingset

SS 211: Ghosts of Swingset Past - Life on the Swingset

Holy Shit Shira B. Katz is here! … and she’s causing trouble! … and she starts a wonderful conversation with Ginger about mindfulness! ….and she asks what we’ve been doing with our lives and we update...

3 Kesä 20151h 18min

SS 210: Nina Hartley Talks About All of the Things

SS 210: Nina Hartley Talks About All of the Things

Adult film star, author, sex educator, outspoken feminist and advocate for sexual acceptance Nina Hartley joins and honors us with a conversation on the Swingset. Nina was a pioneer of sex positivity ...

27 Touko 20151h 6min

SS 209: Swinging For Dummies IX - Sexy Vacations

SS 209: Swinging For Dummies IX - Sexy Vacations

Vacations. Aren't they great? But you know what's better? SEXY VACATIONS. The kind where you can be naked and flirt all day and have sex all night. Or maybe you decide on an afternoon delight. Of cour...

21 Touko 20151h 19min

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