SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 176: In Bed With The Semi-Nude Swingset

SS 176: In Bed With The Semi-Nude Swingset

There is much to say about this recording. And also very little. You see it sits in a portion of our minds, like it sits behind a drop of water, but who are we kidding, it sits behind drink. The foul ...

1 Loka 201457min

SS 175: Hump & Circumstance - Talking Group Sex - Live At CatalystCon West

SS 175: Hump & Circumstance - Talking Group Sex - Live At CatalystCon West

Life on the Swingset returns to CatalystCon West for a live podcast about group sex You know that one thing you can do outside monogamy that you can’t do within? You can have group sex. That’s right, ...

24 Syys 20141h 6min

SS 174: Bacchanalia Basics: It's Play Party Time! – Live At CatalystCon West

SS 174: Bacchanalia Basics: It's Play Party Time! – Live At CatalystCon West

Life on the Swingset returns to CatalystCon West for a panel discussion about throwing and attending a play party. They’re whispered about, opinions are drawn, expectations are high for both attendees...

17 Syys 20141h 13min

SS 173: Swinging With Scars - Body Image & Identity After Major Life Changes

SS 173: Swinging With Scars - Body Image & Identity After Major Life Changes

Emotional scars, physical scars, both can wreak havoc on your emotional state and body image, especially when you feel different than before. Earlier this year Ginger took a hiatus from the Swingset f...

10 Syys 20141h 7min

SS 172: Organizing & Travelling with Sex Toys - What To Do With Our Dildos, Vibrators, Lube, Rope, Floggers, & Other Fun Things

SS 172: Organizing & Travelling with Sex Toys - What To Do With Our Dildos, Vibrators, Lube, Rope, Floggers, & Other Fun Things

The two most non-"how do I start swinging" questions we get on the Swingset is how do you organize your sex toys and how do you travel with sex toy, so we go in depth with advice and suggestions on wh...

4 Syys 20141h 9min

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the one woman show "Coming Out Kinky: A Grown Up Comedy" joins us for a discussion of her show as well as a performed excerpt, and a discussion on bein...

28 Elo 201459min

SS 170: The Messiness of Speaking Out About Sex and CatalystCon with Guest Dee Dennis

SS 170: The Messiness of Speaking Out About Sex and CatalystCon with Guest Dee Dennis

After the explosive finale of last March's CatalystCon East, we bring Dee Dennis back on the show to discuss how hard it often is to get a dialog going about sex without having dissent everywhere. We ...

20 Elo 20141h 15min

SS 169: Full Swap - Swingset's Partners Take Over The Show

SS 169: Full Swap - Swingset's Partners Take Over The Show

It's bizarro world and Life on the Swingset is going FULL SWAP. The Professor hosts this round table discussion featuring the partners of the Swingset, Ophilia Tesla, Tonia Thomas, and Ronin Technogei...

13 Elo 20141h 20min

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