SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 160: Fumbling Toward Non-Monogamy With Guest Marcia Baczynski

SS 160: Fumbling Toward Non-Monogamy With Guest Marcia Baczynski

I has been a while since anyone here on the Swingset could consider themselves "new to this" but it behooves us to every once in a while put ourselves back into that new and nervous state, where every...

4 Kesä 20141h 4min

SS 159: Flirting! with Reid Mihalko

SS 159: Flirting! with Reid Mihalko

Flirting is perhaps the most important aspect of beginning any romantic and sexual relationship. As Swingers you really need to be on top of your flirting. Since we meet so many people in non-monogamy...

29 Touko 20141h 1min

SS 158: A Primer On Swinging by Cooper Beckett at The Pleasure Chest Chicago

SS 158: A Primer On Swinging by Cooper Beckett at The Pleasure Chest Chicago

Cooper does a one man show Primer on Swinging recorded live at The Pleasure Chest in Chicago. All audience questions have been replaced by the dulcet tones of our own Dylan Thomas for their protection...

22 Touko 20141h 24min

SS 157: Sex Education for College Students with Megan Andelloux

SS 157: Sex Education for College Students with Megan Andelloux

When as adults we don't know what's going on with our sexuality, it can most often be chalked up to a lack of education. Education about risk, sure, but also education about the awesome things sex can...

14 Touko 20141h 8min

SS 156: The Single Male Swinger - Messing With The Bull

SS 156: The Single Male Swinger - Messing With The Bull

We still tend to treat the single male swinger as a problem, a pariah, when we host parties we wonder how to limit unpartnered male responses, we tense up at larger events where the male to female rat...

7 Touko 20141h 23min

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering - This Week We're Strokin' Penises & Vulvas

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering - This Week We're Strokin' Penises & Vulvas

Handjobs and Fingering!  Now that we have your attention, we want everyone to remember that there's lots of pleasure to be hand through the wonders of the partnered manual stimulation of someone's gen...

21 Huhti 20141h 15min

SS 154: Gang Bang The Mailbag 13 - Erection Issues, Swinging Cliques & Gossip, & Body Types at Swing Clubs

SS 154: Gang Bang The Mailbag 13 - Erection Issues, Swinging Cliques & Gossip, & Body Types at Swing Clubs

We took and answered a question about erections, specifically that even after obtaining a prescription for viagra that a gentlemen still experiences trouble while swinging and that it's resulted in le...

15 Huhti 20141h 15min

SS 153: Gang Bang The Mailbag 12 - Black Rings, Herpes, Pre-Judgement, and Swinging as a Single Male

SS 153: Gang Bang The Mailbag 12 - Black Rings, Herpes, Pre-Judgement, and Swinging as a Single Male

Today we stick all our collective hands into our mailbag and pull your questions out! We're back for our twelve attempt at Gang Banging the Mailbag! We tackle questions about the black ring right hand...

8 Huhti 20141h 26min

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