SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 106: It's Naked Party Time - Throwing a Sexy Party with Guest Reid Mihalko

SS 106: It's Naked Party Time - Throwing a Sexy Party with Guest Reid Mihalko

Cooper and Dylan throw some great swinger parties, but not always by design. Much like their journey into non-monogamy, a combination of moxie, trial and error, and luck has combined to create some wo...

18 Helmi 20131h 9min

SS 105: In The Butt - Prostate Play & Anal Sex - Guests: Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian

SS 105: In The Butt - Prostate Play & Anal Sex - Guests: Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian

butts. prostates, both male and female. We're talking all about the rear, from preparation to insertion to orgasm and beyond! Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, authors of The Ultimate Guide to Pr...

11 Helmi 20131h 9min

SS 104: Confidence Is Like A Magic Wand - Building Confidence and Using It

SS 104: Confidence Is Like A Magic Wand - Building Confidence and Using It

After Shira tells us a bizarre story of having her upper lip devoured by a creeper at a club, Cooper talks about falling in love. This leads to a discussion on his developing confidence, and then to t...

4 Helmi 201352min

SS 103: Sex & God - Religion, Swinging, Polyamory, & Sin with Darrel Ray

SS 103: Sex & God - Religion, Swinging, Polyamory, & Sin with Darrel Ray

"Hey Cooper... tell us how you really feel!" "Well alright then."  We've discussed organized religion and how it's affected our own relationship with sexuality, how it influences our community as a wh...

28 Tammi 20131h 8min

SS 102: Sex Positive Community Building & Conferences - Guest Dee Dennis from CatalystCon East

SS 102: Sex Positive Community Building & Conferences - Guest Dee Dennis from CatalystCon East

Dee Dennis decided to join us for a discussion on building sex positive communities (and the perils within doing so), and how to translate that into a great conference experience! It's apropos as she'...

21 Tammi 20131h 16min

SS 101: Introduction to Progressive Swinging

SS 101: Introduction to Progressive Swinging

For Episode 101 we thought giving a brief "101" lecture on Progressive Swinging felt right. So, we reintroduce and define what we mean by Progressive Swinging, and give you the very basics; what you n...

14 Tammi 20131h 10min

SS 100: Looking Back, and Forward to Another 100 Episodes

SS 100: Looking Back, and Forward to Another 100 Episodes

This... is episode 100. We thank our guests, our previous co-hosts, we yell at each other, unbridled chaos abounds everywhere. It's a full 90 minutes of the four of us enjoying each other. Pure joy, t...

1 Tammi 20131h 30min

SS Special: Origin Stories: My Journey into Non-Monogamy, a Dylan Story

SS Special: Origin Stories: My Journey into Non-Monogamy, a Dylan Story

Not all of you have been listening weekly for three years (probably... maybe) so by extension, not all of you know how we got here and what we lived through before we discovered these lifestyles we le...

31 Joulu 20121h 29min

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