How to Teach Kids About Money (Without Power Struggles) with David Delisle

What if raising financially responsible kids isn't about teaching them to save more but rather helping them understand what actually matters?

In this episode, Catholic financial planner and host Deb Meyer sits down with David Delisle, creator of The Awesome Stuff™, to explore how our relationship with money is shaped early. Learn how parents can guide their kids toward more intentional choices without constant conflict.

David shares a simple yet transformational question that can shift how your family approaches money:

👉 "Is this my awesome stuff?"

This conversation blends mindset and practical parenting strategies to help you raise kids who spend, save, and give with purpose.

Episode Highlights

• (01:46) Why "more money" doesn't solve the real problem

• (05:00) The issue with labeling kids as savers or spenders

• (08:40) Teaching money through everyday moments

• (​​10:20) A simple question that changes everything

• (16:30) Letting natural consequences do the teaching
  
  

Q&A: Parenting and Money Made Practical

1. When should I start teaching my kids about money?
   As soon as they start asking you to buy them something. At that point, they're ready to begin learning about choices and trade-offs. This is the case even if they don't understand dollar amounts yet.

1. How do I teach money without overwhelming my kids?
   Keep it simple and conversational. Use relatable comparisons (like toys or treats) and focus on helping them make smart choices instead of memorizing numbers.

1. What's the best way to handle it when kids constantly ask for things?
   Instead of saying yes or no, ask: "Is that your awesome stuff?" This shifts the decision back to your child and reduces power struggles.

1. How do I balance letting kids choose while still teaching responsibility?
   Set spending boundaries, but allow freedom within those limits. Let natural consequences teach lessons when possible.

1. What if my kids have very different money habits?
   That's normal. Avoid labeling a child naturally inclined to spend as "better" than one who typically saves money (and vice versa). Focus on helping each child understand what truly matters to him or her.

Connect with guest David Delisle, Creator of The Awesome Stuff™

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