Is this Normal? The Sex Questions Women Don't Ask Out Loud

What if the questions you've been quietly googling are the ones everyone else is asking too?

In this episode of Roar, Danielle Davies hosts a candid, unfiltered roundtable conversation about sex, the kind women usually have in whispers, group texts, or not at all.

Joined by pelvic floor PT Caitlyn Tivy, sex therapist Alex Robboy, and sexual wellness founder Lisa Kinsella, this conversation brings together three distinct perspectives on women's bodies, desire, and agency.

Because for something that plays such a significant role in our lives, many women were taught that sex was either private, taboo, or something that should just "work itself out."

This conversation breaks that silence.

From pain and discomfort to desire, communication, and the reality of navigating sex across different life stages, this episode creates space for honesty, without shame, performance, or perfection.

Danielle and her guests explore what it means to actually understand your body, communicate your needs, and question what we've been taught is "normal."

Together, they talk about:

🔥 Why so many women are asking "is this normal?" and why that question matters

🎤 The things we were never taught about our bodies (and should have been)

🧠 How shame shapes our relationship with sex, often without us realizing it

🌿 The role of pelvic health in comfort, pleasure, and function

💥 Why desire changes, and why that's not a problem to fix

📣 How to have honest (and sometimes awkward) conversations about sex

👑 The gap between what women are told and what they actually experience

⚡ Why more information leads to better—not more "perfect"—sex

This episode is a reminder that sex isn't something you're supposed to just figure out alone and that asking questions is often the first step toward agency, comfort, and connection.

If you've ever wondered, "Is this normal?," you're not alone.

🔑 Key Takeaways

You're not the only one asking the questions you think are "weird."

There is no single definition of "normal" when it comes to sex.

Your body is not the problem—lack of information often is.

Desire changes over time, and that's part of being human.

Honest conversations create better experiences than silent assumptions.

🔗 Links mentioned in this episode

C. Tivy Consulting

The Center for Growth

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