273. How to become lucky in your love life

Okay, let's say finding love is 100% all luck.

A few weeks ago I shared my take: finding love is proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it. I got a lot of comments that said, "You're wrong, it's just 100% luck."

So let's run the thought experiment.

If finding love is 100% about luck... what creates the conditions for luck to occur? What even is luck? And how do you become the luckiest version of yourself in your dating life?

This week's episode of The Feminist Dating Show shows you exactly how to create the luckiest love life possible, even if you've never been in a relationship before.

Inside Episode 273 you'll learn:

💎 Why the story "I'm just not someone love happens to" isn't protecting you. It's shrinking opportunities your dating life.

💎 The two-part formula behind every lucky love story: proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it

💎 How to do the both/and-- hold real frustration or grief about your dating past without letting it become a prediction about your future

💎 What the both/and reframe actually looks like when you've been ghosted, rejected, or disappointed more times than you can count

💎 What creating the conditions for luck looks like in your love life this week

Work with Lily:

🔥 Join my free live training, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed: https://datebrazen.com/lets-go

📖 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book

✨ Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook

💜 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/

💜 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen

💜 Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen

Tämä jakso on lisätty Podme-palveluun avoimen RSS-syötteen kautta eikä se ole Podmen omaa tuotantoa. Siksi jakso saattaa sisältää mainontaa.

Jaksot(333)

278. Stop Demoting Yourself to the "Best Friend" Role

Here are 3 signs you're demoting yourself to the "best friend" role in love, friendship, and work... You're the designated listener in your friendships, always the one reaching out first, making the p...

18 Elo 16min

Episode Spotlight: How to date in-person if you're scared to start

If approaching a cutie in the wild makes you nauseous… If you "aren't the type of person" to make eye contact with hotties in the wild… If the thought of asking someone out in-person makes your buttho...

11 Elo 15min

Episode Spotlight: Feel undesirable? Here's what to do.

If you've ever feared that you're not attractive or desirable because it's never happened before, this episode is a must-listen. Lily breaks down the internalized fears many late bloomers carry—and ho...

4 Elo 11min

277. The Flirting Ladder (from frozen with fear, to flirting irl)

You want to flirt IRL. But you're scared to start... The Flirting Ladder is exactly how you will build the skills to become an expert, confident flirter! This is the exact tool Lily teaches inside Mai...

28 Heinä 24min

276. The Impossible List: The Exercise That Proves Your Love Story Is Possible

Today we're talking about making the impossible happen. So if you think finding love is impossible for you, this is the episode for you. You've done it before. The friendship you didn't know you nee...

21 Heinä 10min

Episode Spotlight: Get over the fear of rejection (rejection resilience side quest!)

If rejection makes you want to hide under the covers and never date again—this episode is your roadmap back to brave action. In this Episode Spotlight, Lily shares one of her most painful rejections...

14 Heinä 32min

Episode Spotlight: "How to move through hopelessness in my dating life?"

This episode of The Feminist Dating Show is a juicy one-- I'm responding to a listener's voicemail about feeling completely hopeless after being ghosted... And after validating the hell out of her (b...

8 Heinä 20min

Episode Spotlight: "I'm a late bloomer, will men think that's a red flag?" - Live Coaching Session

If you feel like a late bloomer, and you're fearful that will come off like a "red flag" when you start dating, this is for you. This is a live coaching session with Dana, a healthcare worker who's n...

30 Kesä 58min