“My Favorite Psychotherapist Went to Jail” with Kayla Perry

Moralistic judgment is the root of so much division in our field and in our society. The perception of ideologically opposing groups as uninformed, evil, or inherently harmful is the surest way to eliminate any possibility of dialogue. Moralistic judgment can be a way of naming oppressive systems that have been enabled or whitewashed; but when directed at individual people, it becomes a painful and dehumanizing form of exclusion.

There's a particular brand of moral outrage that is reserved for fellow mental health practitioners. It's designed to protect the integrity of our profession and is expressed in statements such as “how can you_________, and still be a therapist”, or “this person should never have been treating eating disorders to begin with”. In clear cases of abuse and exploitation, this is true. However, when applied more broadly, we run the risk of flattening the humanity of the practitioner and the experience of those who benefited from their work

I recently came across an Instagram post by Kayla Perry, our guest today, where she spoke about a psychotherapist who had benefited her tremendously, who she later discovered served a jail sentence for unlicensed practice and insurance fraud. In this episode, we dive deeper into Kayla’s experience with this therapist before her sentencing and her perceptions of her afterward.

I hope that you, the listener, will understand that this conversation is not condoning deception, but inviting you into the contradictions that live inside each of us, and exploring the question: are we defined by our worst behaviors?

Kayla Perry is a Licensed Behavior Analyst with master’s degrees in Clinical Psychology and Applied Behavior Analysis. Known for her bluntness, curiosity, and love of debate, she takes a practical, direct approach that emphasizes common sense, critical thinking, and honest conversation over rigid clinical jargon. You can find Kayla on her Instagram and substack accounts linked in the show notes.

Connect with Kayla

Subtack: honestlyunorthodox.substack.com.

Instagram: @kaylas.common.sense

Connect with Elka

Website: https://cubacubcounseling.com/

Email: elka@cubacubcounseling.com