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171 - The Marriage You Want vs. The Marriage You Were Taught with Sheila Gregoire

Sheila Gregoire is the author of 11 books including the Great Sex Rescue and The Marriage You Want. She hosts the Bare Marriage podcast and you can connect with her and her resources at https://baremarriage.com A few things we discuss in todays episode:

Sheilas statement in her book "The Marriage you want" - 'The problem with sex in Christian relationships isn't so much the absence of good teaching; it's the presence of bad teaching"

What should sex in marriage be

The messages women receive that even when their husband is doing something wrong, the wife can solve it herself by praying harder or being a better wife

Women shocked by betrayal from porn or infidelity being labeled codependent versus traumatized victims

The role of pastors versus professionals and how can we get better messaging into the church

What should a Christian marriage really be/feel like?

Find her books here: https://baremarriage.com/books-2/

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