You’re Missing What Matters Most to Real Connection—Dr. Jenn Kennedy | Ep 244

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Dr. Jenn Kennedy, a sex and couples therapist, for an eye-opening and heartfelt conversation about connection — why it matters, what it really means, and how it shapes the very core of our relationships. Dr. Jenn shares her favorite quote from Brené Brown: “Connection is why we are here. It is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.” Together, we peel back the layers of what connection feels like, why it’s so elusive for couples (and friendships), and how even brief moments of true presence can create transformative intimacy.

Dr. Jenn shares insights from her therapy work, explains how distractions and judgment can erode connection, and guides us in simple ways to be more deeply present with ourselves and others. Whether it’s about practicing mindfulness, enjoying another’s company, or just putting the phone down, her wisdom is both practical and profound — a must-listen for anyone wanting closer, more meaningful relationships.

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Website: https://pleasureproject.com

Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:24 Meet Dr. Jenn Kennedy
00:36 Dr. Jenn’s Favorite Quote
01:32 What Is Connection?
02:48 Explanation For A Five-Year-Old
04:07 Connection Gives Purpose And Meaning
05:41 Facilitating Connection
06:58 What Ruins Connection?
08:41 Disconnection And Its Causes
10:42 Phone Addiction And Presence
12:59 Compartmentalizing And Being Present
15:13 The Skill Of True Presence
15:49 Mindfulness And The Power Of The Moment
16:46 Takeaway: Connection To Self And Others
18:00 Where To Find Dr. Jenn Kennedy
18:56 Closing And Final Thoughts