My Boyfriend Has Child Porn

Dr. Kirk Honda answers three difficult emails about pedophilia. One listener discovers child sexual abuse material on her boyfriend’s computer and struggles with what to do next. Another listener realizes he is a minor-attracted person (MAP) and fears what that means for his future. A therapist writes in seeking guidance on helping suicidal MAP clients. June 29, 2026

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00:00 Why are these episodes important?
06:44 I discovered my boyfriend has child porn
14:24 What types of pedophiles are there?
31:23 How can I repair the relationship?
34:02 Am I a pedophile or did I train my interest?
51:09 B4U-ACT & suicidality
1:10:31 Review

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