Why Your Partner Never Seems to Get It (and How to Finally Reach Them) | Love | E538

Why Your Partner Never Seems to Get It (and How to Finally Reach Them) | Love | E538

Your partner heard something you never said. That’s why the conversation went sideways. That’s why you’re suddenly defending yourself.That’s why they’re hurt.That’s why you’re both thinking, “How did we get here again?” If you’re struggling with a lack of communication in a relationship, this episode is for you. Because the problem may not be that you’re bad at communicating. It may be that you and your partner are speaking completely different emotional languages. In this episode, I’m talking with psychotherapist Jason VanRuler, author of Discovering Your Communication Type, about why the same words can land beautifully for one person and completely miss another. We’ll unpack the five communication types, why good intentions still create painful disconnection, and how to speak in a way your partner can actually receive. You'll learn: Why your partner hears something totally different than what you meant How the same words can comfort one person and trigger another The five communication types that shape every hard conversation Why “men can’t communicate” is a lazy, damaging myth How to stop blaming each other and start translating each other What to say after a fight when you actually want to repair You don’t have to keep having the same argument forever. You may just need to learn how your partner listens. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the podcast: Shopify — Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you’ll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

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Resentment in Your Relationship? The Uncomfortable Truth About Your Part | Love | E558

Resentment in Your Relationship? The Uncomfortable Truth About Your Part | Love | E558

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Why You’re Great at Communicating With Everyone Except Your Partner (And How to Fix It) | Love | E557

Why You’re Great at Communicating With Everyone Except Your Partner (And How to Fix It) | Love | E557

You can navigate a difficult conversation with your boss, calm down a frustrated friend, and explain exactly how you feel…so why does one sentence from your partner turn you into someone who suddenly ...

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How to Overcome Insecurity When “Loving Yourself” Isn’t Working | Happiness | E556

How to Overcome Insecurity When “Loving Yourself” Isn’t Working | Happiness | E556

If love makes you suspicious, compliments make you uncomfortable, and happiness makes you wait for something bad to happen…this episode might explain your entire life. Because what if your insecurity...

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Control Issues? How To Know If You're The Problem | Love | E555

Control Issues? How To Know If You're The Problem | Love | E555

We can all spot controlling people seeking influence over us. But what about our blind spots? What happens when other people are feeling controlled by us and we don't even realize what we're doing? ...

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Why You Say Yes When You Really Mean No (And How To Start Setting Boundaries With Confidence) | Success | E554

Why You Say Yes When You Really Mean No (And How To Start Setting Boundaries With Confidence) | Success | E554

You said yes. You smiled. You went along with it. And afterward, you thought: Why didn’t I say something? If you struggle to stand up for yourself, Dr. Sunita Sah has a surprising message for you: ...

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Hostile Work Environment? Why HR May Not Be On Your Side | Success | E553

Hostile Work Environment? Why HR May Not Be On Your Side | Success | E553

Your workplace feels wrong. But do you actually know what you’re dealing with? If you've been calling your job a hostile work environment, stop…because that phrase carries more weight than you might ...

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Should You Marry Them? How To Know If Your Relationship Is Built To Last | Love | E552

Should You Marry Them? How To Know If Your Relationship Is Built To Last | Love | E552

You love them. So why can’t you shake the feeling that something might be wrong? Nothing is bad enough to leave. There’s no glaring red flag. You’re happy… mostly. But when you imagine getting engage...

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Can’t Shake That Feeling? What Your Dark Emotions Are Trying to Tell You | Happiness | E551

Can’t Shake That Feeling? What Your Dark Emotions Are Trying to Tell You | Happiness | E551

The feeling you can’t shake isn’t going away. And there’s a reason. The regret that keeps coming back. The boredom you feel in a life you actually love. The shame that whispers something terrible abo...

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