206. Hidden Assets or Costly Rabbit Holes? How Much Financial Discovery Is Enough?

One missing financial document could change the outcome of a divorce—but spending thousands tracing an account that once held only a few hundred dollars may not. So how do you know when you have enough reliable information to mediate, negotiate, or sign a settlement agreement? In this Divorce Explored episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan explain how to build a clear picture of your marital estate without getting trapped in costly financial rabbit holes. They discuss why organization should come before investigation, how key documents differ from supporting records, and how to distinguish a material gap—such as a substantial investment account missing from current disclosures—from an unanswered question that may never change the outcome. You’ll learn four questions to ask before requesting years of financial history, what may happen when a spouse refuses to provide records, why subpoenas sometimes come back “no records found,” and what a focused deficiency list should accomplish. Karen and Catherine also explain why mediation requires a reliable financial foundation—not absolute perfection. Financial clarity means having enough verified information to understand the risks, evaluate your options, and make informed decisions with confidence. Key takeaways Start with what you know and what you have; build the marital estate before beginning a broader investigation Connect every additional document request to a specific financial purpose Ask: What am I trying to prove? How could the answer change the marital estate? Is a court likely to permit the discovery? Could the cost exceed the likely benefit? Consider whether uncertainty can be addressed through negotiation, conservative values, offsets, true-ups, or settlement protections instead of endless tracing Learn more at MyDivorceSolution.com This conversation is educational and is not legal, tax, or investment advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices