290. What to Do With Urges: Resist, React, or Allow

290. What to Do With Urges: Resist, React, or Allow

What if the way you respond to your urges is the thing keeping you stuck? In this episode, I break down the three ways you can respond when an urge to view pornography comes up: resisting it, reacting to it, or allowing it. Understanding the difference between these approaches can completely change the way you handle urges.

I explain why using willpower and trying to push urges away doesn’t work long term, and why many people end up stuck in a cycle of resisting and reacting. Instead, I teach you what it means to allow an urge, process it, and build your ability to sit with discomfort without acting on it.

You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between resisting, reacting, and allowing, why processing urges builds your tolerance for discomfort, and how this skill can help you create more freedom in your life. This episode will help you approach urges differently and understand what becomes possible when you stop fighting them.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/urges-resist-react-allow

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303. The Limiting Beliefs Keeping You Stuck in Porn

303. The Limiting Beliefs Keeping You Stuck in Porn

The beliefs you hold about yourself and your ability to change can have a bigger impact than you realize. In this episode, I explore how limiting beliefs can keep you stuck in pornography use, even wh...

9 Marras 15min

302. How to Make Progress Quitting Porn Every Day with Hunter

302. How to Make Progress Quitting Porn Every Day with Hunter

Making progress toward quitting porn can feel overwhelming when you focus too far into the future. In this episode, Coach Hunter Garrett shares the daily practice that helped him work toward overcomin...

2 Marras 12min

301. Masturbation: Myths, Shame, and What the Research Says

301. Masturbation: Myths, Shame, and What the Research Says

Masturbation can bring up a lot of shame, fear, and conflicting messages about what is healthy or acceptable. In this episode, I explore the research and common myths surrounding masturbation, includi...

26 Loka 39min

300. The Role of Nervous System Healing in Quitting Porn

300. The Role of Nervous System Healing in Quitting Porn

Have you ever pushed yourself to keep going when what you really needed was to slow down and take care of yourself? In this episode, I explain why understanding your nervous system and learning to rec...

19 Loka 14min

299. Becoming a New Person (Pillar Four of Quitting Porn)

299. Becoming a New Person (Pillar Four of Quitting Porn)

Quitting porn is about more than stopping a behavior. It’s about becoming the person you want to be. In this fourth and final episode of the series on the pillars needed to overcome pornography, I tal...

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298. Emotional Regulation (Pillar Three of Quitting Porn)

298. Emotional Regulation (Pillar Three of Quitting Porn)

Unwanted porn use is often connected to the emotions you’re trying to escape. In this third episode of a four-part series on the pillars needed to overcome pornography, I talk about emotional regulati...

5 Loka 21min

297. Mindful Urge Management (Pillar Two of Quitting Porn)

297. Mindful Urge Management (Pillar Two of Quitting Porn)

Urges are not something you have to fear or fight against. In this second episode of a four-part series on the pillars needed to overcome pornography, I talk about mindful urge management and how lear...

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296. Shame-Free Commitment (Pillar One of Quitting Porn)

296. Shame-Free Commitment (Pillar One of Quitting Porn)

Commitment is required to quit pornography, but the kind of commitment you create matters. In this first episode of a four-part series on the pillars needed to overcome pornography, I talk about why s...

21 Syys 26min

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