Pregnancy Loss, Stories in the Spotlight & Finding the Right Words

This week, Sonia and Jess continue The Babies We Carry With Us, their October Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month series, with a conversation about the babies who are gone but never forgotten; and why talking about them still makes so many people uncomfortable. From Chrissy Teigen and Meghan Markle to Christina Perri, Carrie Underwood, Beyoncé, and Courteney Cox, the girls explore how public figures have shared their experiences with miscarriage, stillbirth, and pregnancy loss, and the beautiful ways some continue to honor their babies. Jess also opens up about experiencing two miscarriages, including the heartbreaking reality of receiving news of her loss while at work. Together, Sonia and Jess talk about the loneliness of grieving in silence, the complicated emotions that follow loss, and why even the most well-intentioned comments can sometimes hurt more than help. There are laughs, a few thoughts about what not to say to grieving parents, and a reminder that sometimes the most meaningful thing you can offer someone is simply your presence. As part of this month's campaign, 'Geriatric' Mamas is proud to collaborate with Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support, an organization providing resources and compassionate support to families navigating pregnancy and infant loss. Whether you've experienced loss yourself or want to better support someone who has, this conversation is a reminder that every baby matters, every family's grief deserves compassion, and no one should have to carry it alone. Content note: This episode discusses miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, and personal experiences of grief. Please listen when it feels right for you.

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