It's Not "Weird" To Ask For What You Want

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I cou...

30 Touko 202211min

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back ...

27 Touko 20229min

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, sta...

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When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so ...

23 Touko 202216min

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently ...

20 Touko 20225min

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertive...

18 Touko 20221h 10min

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live ...

13 Touko 20227min

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and ...

11 Touko 202243min