Fingers, Hands, Mouths and Tongues
Sextras1 Maalis 2022

Fingers, Hands, Mouths and Tongues

In this episode we get deep into developing a philosophy for fingering and handjobs. We attempt to unpack whether handjobs are something any penis-owning person enjoys, or thinks someone else can do better than them, and try to understand their place in sex as a whole.


We begin with some polls where we ask people with penises about their handjob preferences and people with vulvas about their fingering preferences (namely whether they prefer clitoral or penetrative fingering). Then, we move on to the different roles fingering and handjobs play in sex, and debate which is harder (ha) skill-wise for people to do. Finally, we give some tips for fingering and handjobs and foreplay as a whole.


We hope you enjoy this episode, we think it gives a rather accurate insight into what is going on in our brains, and attempting to establish an understanding of what penis-owning people are thinking.


You can find more of us on Instagram and Facebook @sextraspodcast, email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com or visit our website www.sextraspodcast.com.


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Produced by Mable Productions


Original music by Sacha Puttnam

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