Using your mental illness as an advantage

"I know who they are... but I’m staying."Not everyone is ready to leave. Whether it's for the kids, financial stability, or a hope that things will change, many people choose to remain in a relationsh...

1 Maalis 32min

Are they "scared" of intimacy, or are they "managing" you?It’s the question that keeps thousands of people stuck in toxic cycles. You see them pulling away, shutting down, and becoming cold—but is it ...

28 Helmi 13min

Are you swiping right on a predator? Online dating is a narcissist's dream. It allows them to curate a "Perfect Mask" before you ever meet them. As a self-aware narcissist, I’m pulling back the curtai...

27 Helmi 32min

"Just go No Contact!" feels like a slap in the face when you have shared custody, a business, or legal ties to a narcissist.For many survivors, complete severance isn't an option. But that doesn't mea...

26 Helmi 15min

Are you spiraling because the narcissist replaced you with someone who feels like a massive "downgrade"?It’s not about love; it’s about logistics. As a self-aware narcissist, I’m explaining the concep...

25 Helmi 33min

Are you "Grade A Supply" without even knowing it?Most people think narcissists target "broken" people. As a self-aware narcissist, I’m telling you that’s a lie. We want the best. We want the person wi...

24 Helmi 33min

Have you ever discovered a betrayal—infidelity, a lie, or a discard—and suddenly felt a surge of intense desire to be close to the person who hurt you? That isn’t love—it’s Hysterical Bonding.Hysteric...

21 Helmi 12min

ou finally figured out your partner was a narcissist—and then you looked at your parents. Then your friends. Then your boss.It’s called the "Awakening," and it is one of the most overwhelming parts of...

20 Helmi 21min