S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I split with my husband of 14 years and my divorce has just come through. I’m a combination of nervous and excited. The marriage wasn’t bad, it was just boring and the sex was never good or satisfying. I’m now ready to get out there and start dating again, but I’m nervous about sex. Any tips on how to ease back into it? I’m 46.


2) I love my wife but I have just finished a work affair that lasted two months. I didn’t finish it, she did. The affair was just sex—she chased me, rather than me making the moves—so I guess you would call it an opportunistic affair. I’ll miss the sex, but I’m glad it’s over and I am praying my wife will never find out. What concerns me though is how easy I found it to cheat. Is this a male thing? It meant nothing to me, but I know my wife sure as hell wouldn’t view it that way. I feel ashamed now that it’s over, but I didn’t while I was having it. Does this mean I will do it again?


3) How do I stay in the moment during sex? I am so easily distracted, half the time I forget I’m actually having sex. I drift off into my own world, thinking about things I have to do or things I want to buy.


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S15 Ep. 2: Late Bloomers, Sex Toys for Him, and Sex on Camera

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m concerned about my daughter. She’s a virgin at 24. Once upon a time, a parent’s fear was teenage pregnancy. I’m worrie...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Can you explain what role-playing games are? What would you recommend for guys, so it doesn’t come off as weird when I sug...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband left me for a much younger woman. It happened two months ago, so the shock is wearing off, but I have no clue h...

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S14 Ep. 9: Dildos, PE (Premature Ejaculation), and Threesomes

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) A simple question for you: what do people use dildos for? I get why a vibrator is appealing, but why would a couple need o...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been single for a few years and was desperate for sex, so started an affair with a friend of a friend. I knew he was ...

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) What’s your view on ‘O-shots’? My friend had one after menopause and says it rejuvenated her vagina back to what it was in...

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S14 Ep. 6: Sensitive Clitorises, He's Sexually Obsessed with My Friend, and Is My New Partner a Sex Addict?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) You’ve talked about penis size and sensitivity, but I haven’t heard you talk about clitoris size in that regard. I used to...

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