Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 42: Birth Father Roles & Their Impact

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 42: Birth Father Roles & Their Impact

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 42: Birth Father Roles & Their Impact Many times birth fathers and birth mothers have broken up and are not longer together and without his support; emotional, physical, financial and mental- a birth mother decides adoption is in the best interest of both her and her unborn baby. The birth mother may have realized that her relationship is incredibly unstable and wants stability and longevity for her child. Other times, birth mothers may continue to be in a relationship with their unborn baby’s birth father and he is not in support of her adoption plan. He will argue with her about her plan, and she sticks to her plan and they will break up and get back together and the focus becomes on him rather than her adoption plan. In her mind, she has made her decision and her knees are locked. This situation is very difficult on a birth mother and one way to assist her is to build up her support system. Sometimes a birth mother has multiple potential birth fathers. They may have broken up and gotten back together and they don’t know which one is the actual birth father. Other times there are situations where all of the birth fathers are very cooperative. Sometimes, in the best case scenarios; the birth father is very supportive of the birth mother, regardless of whether or not they are in a current relationship. He attends all of the adoption meetings, helps choose the adoptive family, meets with them and develops his own relationship with them. This situation is so positive for the birth mother, it not only establishes a support structure but gives her further assurance in her adoption choice. Adoption is a beautiful choice and studies have shown us that birth fathers can be a very valuable asset in their support of an adoption plan.

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Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things

Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things

Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast S3, Ep201: Being Thankful in All Things Reunification in adoption doesn't always work out the way we think.   Finding ways to be thankful.  Learn about adoption reunifcation when it doesn't work out the way we think it will.

28 Marras 202124min

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month November is National Adoption Month!  Learn how you can suport all members of the adoption triad.  Also, learn how and why the holidays may be difficult for and how you can help!  Keep on learning about all things adoption!

21 Marras 20219min

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption Learn about the reasons society is fascinated with adoption, what the most commonly asked questions are and why it is an issue.

12 Marras 202119min

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption

Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption There are a multitude of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption.  Here are twenty of the reasons...  Too young- teen momNot ready to be a parentIn financial distressDesire for baby to have the best life possibleStruggling with addictionPregnancy is a result of rape or incestNo support – single parent maybe, no family?Life is presently unstable: unemployed/homelessWanting different things out of life:  College, Demanding Job etc…Family is not in agreement with you parenting a babyBroken up with the birth fatherCPS/DCS- state involvement with other childrenDon't believe in abortion- religiousSignificant/severe health issuesCurrently in a  Domestic Violent situationDon't have the  time/resources/patience for another childDesire for your child raised in a two parent familyThe baby will have special needs and you are unable to care for your babyAdoption is free for BMs and they may be able to receive assistanceThe belief in adoption, maybe experienced adoption before These 20 reason for women choosing to make an adoption plan are only some of the reasons women choose adoption. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

29 Loka 202117min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence What influences society's view of adoption and how does that influence adoptive families? Adoption isn’t taboo, and we need to celebrate it, just like you would the news of a pregnancy.  Share in the joy!   Maybe plan a “Sip & See” after the adoption is finalized? Remember when somone is sharing their exciting news of choosing to adopt: Be mindful of thestories you tell…Hold off on a summerization of "Lifetime-type" movies.Its not the time to tell the stories of adoption disruptions of others.  (Additionally, you may not have the whole story.)Remember that your words matter.  Use adoption- friendly word chpices and be mindful of what you say and the way in which you say it.Keep in mind that additionally, your or others' reposnses may be influenced by various types of Influences, such asSocial MediaEducation LevelPersonal ExperienceGenerational InfluenceSocial Influence If you offer your congratulations and support, that will mean the world to the person(s) adopting.  If you have questions, maybe hold off for a bit until the news is shared with everyone intended.  Adoption support is needed, and the importance and value of adoption matters.

22 Loka 202121min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption Spreading the Love of Adoption, raising adoption awareness- what you can do to make an impact on elevating the understanding, acceptance and choice of adoption. Giving adoption a voice. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

13 Loka 202116min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195:  Following Up on Topics

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195: Following Up on Topics

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast  2:195:  Following Up on Topics Follow-up on previous topics previously discussed:  online adoptive profiles, Fund raising, abortion news, separation anxiety, holiday giving. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

9 Loka 202113min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees Sparation Anxiety can be a common issue among adoptees.    Adoptees may experience separation & anxiety during their lifetime.  Adoptees may find comfort in knowing that they are not alone, goodbyes can be very difficult. Loved ones can gather an understanding adoptee separation anxiety and ways to support them. Listen. Learn. Love. Giving adoption a voice.

22 Syys 202124min

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