Episode 119 - How to stop "shoulding" yourself pregnant

Episode 119 - How to stop "shoulding" yourself pregnant

"I should be more disciplined." "I shouldn't be feeling sad." "I should have more hope." "I shouldn't eat this piece of bread." When you're TTC, the "shoulding" is endless. …about what you should do to optimize conception. But more deeply rooted, about how you should feel. Although you think the shoulding part of your brain might be the voice that "keeps you on track"… The only track we keepin' on with this voice… is one of constant self-rejection. Mama bear, your feelings and emotions on this journey, are so valid. The sadness, the fatigue, the disappointment, the desire to stop dieting… it's ALL valid. Is there room for change? Sure — but this is found INSIDE of validation and compassion for where you're at FIRST. A deep spiritual paradox is that acceptance = change. So how do you offer this to yourself? How do you reframe the narrative of this "shoulding" tyrant in your brain? I recorded a podcast on it "How to Stop Shoulding Yourself" to better help you understand:
  • Where shoulding comes from.
  • How to reframe this constant nagging of not enoughness.
  • And simple steps you can take today to give yourself more compassion and in turn, increase fertility.
Listen now!

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Episode 169 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Dana Stopped Waiting. Life Didn't.

Episode 169 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Dana Stopped Waiting. Life Didn't.

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Episode 168 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Chelsea's leap of faith.

Episode 168 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Chelsea's leap of faith.

If you've ever hit that one-year mark and thought, "Okay. That's it. Something's wrong with me…" this episode is going to land in all the cells of your body. In today's Held in Her Stories episode, I ...

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Episode 167 - HELD IN HER STORIES: How Macey took the baby off the pedestal.

Episode 167 - HELD IN HER STORIES: How Macey took the baby off the pedestal.

If you've ever thought… ⭐️"I should be further along by now." ⭐️"Once I finally get pregnant, then I'll feel okay." ⭐️"If I don't control this, it won't happen…" …then this week's Fertile Ground episo...

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Episode 166 - HELD IN HIS + HER STORIES: Rebuilding trust in your marriage while TTC

Episode 166 - HELD IN HIS + HER STORIES: Rebuilding trust in your marriage while TTC

If we're honest… for a lot of us, TTC quietly turns our partner into a project. Did you take your vitamins? Don't get in the hot tub. Drink more water. Not that beer. Let me just manage literally ever...

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Episode 165 - HELD IN HER STORIES: When control stops working

Episode 165 - HELD IN HER STORIES: When control stops working

Ahhh – you don't want to miss this one! The 2nd episode in our HELD IN HER STORIES series is for the woman who's smart (Like, scientist smart), resourced, doing all the things… and still feeling anxio...

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Episode 164 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Amber's Story – Worth Isn't a Number

Episode 164 - HELD IN HER STORIES: Amber's Story – Worth Isn't a Number

I'm thrilled to share something brand spankin' new with you — a special Fertile Ground podcast series called HELD IN HER STORIES. These are real conversations with women inside my program, Fertility M...

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Episode 163 - Support doesn't make you weak —it makes you a f*cking force!

Episode 163 - Support doesn't make you weak —it makes you a f*cking force!

Let's talk about a belief that's quietly running the show for so many brilliant, high-achieving women trying to conceive: ✨ "If I get support… if I make this easier… then I won't be/feel worthy of m...

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Episode 162 - My hot take on Unexplained Infertility (It's not what you think)

Episode 162 - My hot take on Unexplained Infertility (It's not what you think)

I've noticed more and more people online saying "there's no such thing as unexplained infertility." That if you just test enough, fix enough, try enough… you'll find the root cause. And although th...

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