One Way to Understand People Who Have Hurt You

The highest impact leaders all have one trait in common: they are extreme contrarians. They were seen by the majority as radicals, misfits and eccentrics. They saw what most see and thought what few think. They rejected the mass hypnosis and schooled brainwashing of society. That says that geniuses are cut from a different cloth, that your ethical ambitions should be suppressed and that your life needs to be reasonable. Makes me think of the words of George Bernard Shaw who wrote: “The reas...

3 Helmi 20236min

The superstars I work with are wizards of making things happen. The reality is that the majority moves slowly. It takes ages for them to complete a project and week upon week to get important things done. Zero judgment here. Just reporting. And this way of being is because most people are exhausted. And bored [so they have no raging fire to execute, in their souls]. The A-Players are diametrically different. They rise early, move swiftly and deliver beautifully. I’ve handcrafted an absolu...

2 Helmi 20232min

The key to becoming masterful at rising early lives in discovering how the pros sleep deeply. Rejuvenating sleep isn’t a luxury—it’s an absolute necessity. Science says you should sleep 7-8 hours a night for excellent health, strong productivity, and a long life. Anything less significantly increases all-cause mortality. [That just means you’ll probably die earlier]. That roughly means sleep at 10pm and awaken at 5AM. To win the battle of the bed. To put mind over mattress. To own your ...

1 Helmi 20232min

The highest impact leaders all have one trait in common: they are extreme contrarians. They were seen by the majority as radicals, misfits and eccentrics. They saw what most see and thought what few think. They rejected the mass hypnosis and schooled brainwashing of society. That says that geniuses are cut from a different cloth, that your ethical ambitions should be suppressed and that your life needs to be reasonable. Makes me think of the words of George Bernard Shaw who wrote: “The re...

31 Tammi 20233min

I want you—in 2023—to become superbrave. Beginning today, I wish that you’d start doing more of the things you fear. Each time you do, you take back the power that you gave to it. And grow more fearless. This is a practice. So the more you train on leaning into what terrifies you the better you’ll get at it. If you’d like me to become YOUR mentor so I help you make 2023 the best year of your life yet, I’d be happy to be of service to your greatness. Truly. I’ve hand...

30 Tammi 20233min

­Outer success without spiritual triumph is like a moon without the stars. Ayn Rand encouraged us to live with “clear sight and a clean soul.” Wise, right? Our culture has trained us to seek worldly success—often at the cost of inner peace. May I humbly suggest that while the pursuit of sensational achievement is a very worthy aim, doing so while neglecting the wisest and truest part of you will lead you to a palace of deep regret. If you’d like me to become YOUR mentor so I help yo...

27 Tammi 202310min

I do believe that the finest goal for a life greatly lived is to work daily to remember who you truly are (before the busyness and hurts of the world blocked you from this knowledge). I am speaking of that part of you beyond flesh and bones. That part of you that is… …heroic versus egoic …brave versus insecure …loving versus selfish …peaceful versus worried And here’s the thing, as you build and strengthen that relationship with your highest and best, every other relationship rises with y...

26 Tammi 20233min

This is a short episode that I’ve recorded for you that just might make you completely rethink your philosophy on how you wish to live over 2022. It’s very contrarian. And the little-discussed concept I share might initially seem strange. Go ahead and listen to it today. And if you’d like me to become YOUR mentor so I help you make 2023 the best year of your life yet, I’d be happy to be of service to your greatness. Truly. I’ve handcrafted an absolutely world-class one...

25 Tammi 20233min