103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

Is there a difference between a slip and a relapse, and at what point should he tell his wife?

In this episode I detail not only the differences between a slip and a relapse but exactly how you can find Freedom from both by resolving the trigger itself.

The traditional way of overcoming pornography is based in helping men prepare for battle.

However, much like Pavlov's dog, our brains create powerful links between triggers and reactions. It's like a reflex we can't control, leading us down the path we wish to avoid.

The other method that I've seen be significantly more effective empowers you to break the association between triggers and the internal reactions they cause, freeing you from the grip of addiction.

As I work with me, when a trigger arises, I guide them through a process that helps you separate the trigger from the response. So, when that trigger appears, it no longer compels you to act out.

For therapy with Sam:

Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org

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Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

3 Syys 25min

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

27 Elo 18min

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

20 Elo 21min

260: Don't Do Busy Work to Quit Porn and Rebuild Your Marriage, Do Targeted Work. Here's How

260: Don't Do Busy Work to Quit Porn and Rebuild Your Marriage, Do Targeted Work. Here's How

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

13 Elo 22min

259: How Could He Love Me and Betray Me at the Same Time?

259: How Could He Love Me and Betray Me at the Same Time?

One of the most painful questions after discovering pornography addiction is this: "If he really loved me, how could he do this?" For many wives, the discovery of porn addiction doesn't just change th...

6 Elo 18min

258: 5 Strategies to Overcome Urges For Pornography That Won't Go Away

258: 5 Strategies to Overcome Urges For Pornography That Won't Go Away

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

30 Heinä 14min

257: When She's Afraid That Sharing Her Feelings Will Trigger Him to Relapse

257: When She's Afraid That Sharing Her Feelings Will Trigger Him to Relapse

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

23 Heinä 17min

256: 5 Habits (60 seconds each) To Help you Quit Porn in 2026

256: 5 Habits (60 seconds each) To Help you Quit Porn in 2026

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

16 Heinä 13min

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