103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

103: Slip vs Relapse and Should He Tell His Wife?

Is there a difference between a slip and a relapse, and at what point should he tell his wife?

In this episode I detail not only the differences between a slip and a relapse but exactly how you can find Freedom from both by resolving the trigger itself.

The traditional way of overcoming pornography is based in helping men prepare for battle.

However, much like Pavlov's dog, our brains create powerful links between triggers and reactions. It's like a reflex we can't control, leading us down the path we wish to avoid.

The other method that I've seen be significantly more effective empowers you to break the association between triggers and the internal reactions they cause, freeing you from the grip of addiction.

As I work with me, when a trigger arises, I guide them through a process that helps you separate the trigger from the response. So, when that trigger appears, it no longer compels you to act out.

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Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org

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212: She’s Flooded. He's Trying. Nothing Is Working. Here’s What to Do Next.

212: She’s Flooded. He's Trying. Nothing Is Working. Here’s What to Do Next.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

4 Syys 202522min

211: The Carrot or the Stick - How to Bring Her Wall Down Without Pressure

211: The Carrot or the Stick - How to Bring Her Wall Down Without Pressure

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

28 Elo 202521min

210: A Simple Tool Anyone Can Use to Reduce Urges: Interview with Jeremy Lipkowitz

210: A Simple Tool Anyone Can Use to Reduce Urges: Interview with Jeremy Lipkowitz

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

21 Elo 202558min

209: You Feel Pressure to "Do Better" But You Don't Have a Plan – Steal Mine

209: You Feel Pressure to "Do Better" But You Don't Have a Plan – Steal Mine

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

14 Elo 202520min

208: "If He Relapses Again, I'm Done."  (How to Protect Your Marriage the Right Way)

208: "If He Relapses Again, I'm Done." (How to Protect Your Marriage the Right Way)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

7 Elo 202516min

207: The One Conversation That Rebuilds Security After Betrayal After Pornography Use

207: The One Conversation That Rebuilds Security After Betrayal After Pornography Use

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

31 Heinä 202524min

206: How To Stop Self-Sabotage So You Can Quit Pornography and Repair Your Relationship

206: How To Stop Self-Sabotage So You Can Quit Pornography and Repair Your Relationship

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

24 Heinä 202522min

205: Can She Really Know If He’s Not Struggling With Porn Anymore? Look For This.

205: Can She Really Know If He’s Not Struggling With Porn Anymore? Look For This.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

17 Heinä 202520min

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