118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

When a man struggles with pornography, addiction or habit, it’s devastating to his wife.

She will express her hurt and pain to him hoping that the behavior will stop, but when it continues to happen, it creates hopelessness and despair.

In those moments, it's easy for her to interpret the situation as ‘he doesn’t love me or care about me, what’s why he keeps doing it.’

When that is how she interprets his behavior, that creates even more pain in her heart.

But what if there was a different way to understand this situation and why he’s doing this?

In this episode, I share one of the best ways I’ve seen couples navigate this issue, develop a stronger bond between each other, and create closure from the past.

For therapy with Sam:

Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org

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204: He Quit Porn — But the Marriage Still Feels Broken (here's what to do)

204: He Quit Porn — But the Marriage Still Feels Broken (here's what to do)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

10 Heinä 202517min

203: Live Session: The Best Tools to Help You Resolve Triggers and End the Arguments

203: Live Session: The Best Tools to Help You Resolve Triggers and End the Arguments

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

3 Heinä 202535min

202: The Only Plan You Need to Quit Pornography By the End of 2025

202: The Only Plan You Need to Quit Pornography By the End of 2025

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

26 Kesä 202519min

201: "Why Did You Do It?" How to Navigate the Hardest Question After Pornography Use

201: "Why Did You Do It?" How to Navigate the Hardest Question After Pornography Use

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

19 Kesä 202520min

200: The Real Reason You Keep Struggling with Porn — And Why More Rules Won’t Help

200: The Real Reason You Keep Struggling with Porn — And Why More Rules Won’t Help

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

12 Kesä 202519min

199: You Don’t Need to Do Everything to Quit Pornography — Just This One Thing

199: You Don’t Need to Do Everything to Quit Pornography — Just This One Thing

Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Get access to my trust building workshop: Rebuild Trust Workshop – http://trust.stopporn.info...

5 Kesä 202518min

198: If You Want Your Urges for Pornography to Go Away, Do This

198: If You Want Your Urges for Pornography to Go Away, Do This

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you ...

29 Touko 202522min

197: You’re Not Codependent — You’re Craving Connection (Here’s the Difference)

197: You’re Not Codependent — You’re Craving Connection (Here’s the Difference)

Is it really codependency… or are you just craving safety after betrayal? In this episode, Sam Tielemans, licensed marriage therapist and host of the Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction Podcast...

22 Touko 202518min

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