118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

118: When She Says, “If You Loved Me, You Never Would Have Watched Pornography”

When a man struggles with pornography, addiction or habit, it’s devastating to his wife.

She will express her hurt and pain to him hoping that the behavior will stop, but when it continues to happen, it creates hopelessness and despair.

In those moments, it's easy for her to interpret the situation as ‘he doesn’t love me or care about me, what’s why he keeps doing it.’

When that is how she interprets his behavior, that creates even more pain in her heart.

But what if there was a different way to understand this situation and why he’s doing this?

In this episode, I share one of the best ways I’ve seen couples navigate this issue, develop a stronger bond between each other, and create closure from the past.

For therapy with Sam:

Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org

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Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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196: Summertime: Visual Temptation Is Everywhere — Here’s How He Can Stay Grounded and Help Her Feel Safe

196: Summertime: Visual Temptation Is Everywhere — Here’s How He Can Stay Grounded and Help Her Feel Safe

Summertime can be one of the hardest seasons for men working to overcome porn addiction, stay sexually grounded, and rebuild trust in their marriage. With more revealing clothing and constant visual s...

15 Touko 202520min

195: Why Stress Triggers Porn Addiction — And How to Break the Pattern

195: Why Stress Triggers Porn Addiction — And How to Break the Pattern

Why Stress Triggers Porn Addiction — And How to Break the Pattern If you struggle with porn addiction and find yourself relapsing whenever life gets stressful or overwhelming, this episode is for you....

8 Touko 202519min

194: A Simple Way to Make Big Progress—In Solving Problems & Building Skills (pt. 3)

194: A Simple Way to Make Big Progress—In Solving Problems & Building Skills (pt. 3)

Welcome back! This is part three of a three-part series to help you make real progress on your healing journey. In the first episode, we talked about five key skills every man needs to stop using porn...

1 Touko 202523min

193: 5 Relationship Skills You Need to Repair the Damage and Find Closure (pt. 2)

193: 5 Relationship Skills You Need to Repair the Damage and Find Closure (pt. 2)

In today’s episode, we’re diving into five essential skills that will help you and your partner heal and grow after being impacted by pornography use. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure...

24 Huhti 202531min

192: 5 Core Skills You Need to Overcome Pornography For Good (pt. 1)

192: 5 Core Skills You Need to Overcome Pornography For Good (pt. 1)

Struggling with porn use isn't about who you are—it's about the approach you've been using. Fighting urges after they appear is too late. The key is learning skills to prevent the first domino from fa...

17 Huhti 202529min

191: When His Sexual Desire Goes Down as He Becomes Free From Pornography (and tools to rebuild your sexual relationship)

191: When His Sexual Desire Goes Down as He Becomes Free From Pornography (and tools to rebuild your sexual relationship)

Today we're talking about something couples rarely discuss: when a husband's interest in sex drops after he stops using porn. For wives, this can feel very confusing and hurtful. After working hard to...

10 Huhti 202522min

190: My Simple 3 Step Framework to Resolving Triggers and  Ending Relapse Cycles For Good

190: My Simple 3 Step Framework to Resolving Triggers and Ending Relapse Cycles For Good

In this episode, I'll show you my easy three-step plan to help you stop watching porn for good. Many people think they just need to try harder to resist urges or avoid things that trigger them. But fi...

3 Huhti 202524min

189: We Rewired John's Subconscious Mind to No Longer Desire Porn (in 44 minutes)

189: We Rewired John's Subconscious Mind to No Longer Desire Porn (in 44 minutes)

I'm excited to share something special with you today - a real-life deep dive session with John where we uncover the root cause of his pornography struggle and work through it together in a single cal...

27 Maalis 202543min

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