134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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158: Success Story: How Kevin Eliminated Pornography Use As A Coping Mechanism

158: Success Story: How Kevin Eliminated Pornography Use As A Coping Mechanism

Many couples fear that it's not possible to eliminate pornography use from their lives. Men struggle for decades with urges and temptation without the right tools. This leads them to fall back into ol...

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157: Build Security Back Into Your Marriage With This Easy, Effective Approach

157: Build Security Back Into Your Marriage With This Easy, Effective Approach

Many couples struggle with feelings of uncertainty and insecurity in their marriage.  Years of deception and lying erodes the foundation of trust, and a lack of communication or transparency keep thin...

15 Elo 202421min

156: Is It Possible to Quit Porn and NEVER Return Again? (…yes, here’s how)

156: Is It Possible to Quit Porn and NEVER Return Again? (…yes, here’s how)

Many men and women wonder if quitting porn is actually possible to do or if it's something that just needs to be managed for the rest of their life. The good news: YES! It's 100% possible to quit and ...

8 Elo 202425min

155: If She Stays, She Thinks He’s Just Getting Away With Everything

155: If She Stays, She Thinks He’s Just Getting Away With Everything

One very difficult hurdle that many women struggle, with is the idea of forgiveness or staying in the relationship with someone who hurt them so much. If she forgives him, does that mean he's getting ...

1 Elo 202421min

154: LIVE CALL – How to Resolve Triggers During / After Sexual Intimacy

154: LIVE CALL – How to Resolve Triggers During / After Sexual Intimacy

Rebuilding sexual intimacy after damage by pornography can be a challenge for many couples. A wife often has fears and concerns like: How do I know he's not fantasizing when we're intimate? What if he...

25 Heinä 202450min

153: When She's Hurt By Him Looking at Women in Public

153: When She's Hurt By Him Looking at Women in Public

Going out into public can create a lot of anxiety for both a husband and wife. She's worried about who he's looking at and what he's thinking about, and he's worried about her getting triggered and fe...

18 Heinä 202424min

152: 3 Things to Jumpstart Marriage Repair

152: 3 Things to Jumpstart Marriage Repair

If you had to get to the other side of a mountain, would you rather take a tunnel through it or climb all the way up and around it? It still takes effort and intention to get to the other side, but on...

11 Heinä 202426min

151: From Grief, Sadness, and Hurt to Healing and Closure

151: From Grief, Sadness, and Hurt to Healing and Closure

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, there is often a lot of grief and hurt that surfaces. Shock about how this could have happened. Feeling stuck in pain not knowing how to make sens...

4 Heinä 202428min

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