134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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150: He’s a Source of Pain AND a Source of Comfort

150: He’s a Source of Pain AND a Source of Comfort

After pornography use, a husband becomes a source of pain as well as a source of comfort for his wife. this can be such a confusing place for both people to be. Sometimes she doesn't want to be around...

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149: A New Twist On Identify and Resolving Underlying Issues That Lead to Pornography Use

149: A New Twist On Identify and Resolving Underlying Issues That Lead to Pornography Use

Understanding and resolving the underlying issues that lead pornography use is essential.  Without addressing the root cause, you're bound to continue to struggle with triggers and temptations. Announ...

20 Kesä 202418min

148: 5 Signs That the Trust in Your Marriage is Seriously Damaged

148: 5 Signs That the Trust in Your Marriage is Seriously Damaged

Announcement!!! Trust is a critical part of rebuilding your relationship after pornography use has damaged it So, I decided to do a special trust building workshop, where for 90 minutes I’ll be doing ...

13 Kesä 202427min

147: Tools to Help Your Relationship Progress If She Brings Up Her Pain

147: Tools to Help Your Relationship Progress If She Brings Up Her Pain

Announcement!!! Trust is a critical part of rebuilding your relationship after pornography use has damaged it. So, I decided to do a special trust building workshop, where for 90 minutes I’ll be doing...

6 Kesä 202426min

146: Success Story: Braden Shares the 5 Specific Things That Changed His Life and Helped Him Quit Pornography

146: Success Story: Braden Shares the 5 Specific Things That Changed His Life and Helped Him Quit Pornography

Have you ever felt so hopeless and discouraged as you've tried to quit pornography that you thought that there's no way out? Despite how hard you've tried, you just haven't been able to get this probl...

30 Touko 202456min

145: When It’s Hard to Work On Your Marriage and Forgiveness Seems Impossible to Achieve

145: When It’s Hard to Work On Your Marriage and Forgiveness Seems Impossible to Achieve

Pornography use damages a relationship in deep and significant ways. Trust is broken and her wall goes up. The idea of forgiveness can feel impossible to offer, and a husband feels despair wondering i...

23 Touko 202423min

144: 5 Signs She’s Feeling Betrayal Trauma (And How You Can Address It)

144: 5 Signs She’s Feeling Betrayal Trauma (And How You Can Address It)

When a woman discovers her husband's pornography use, her whole world gets turn upside down.  Oftentimes she now thinks that everything was a lie. Their whole relationship was fake. They don't even kn...

9 Touko 202432min

143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

When a spouse is gone for the day or weekend and a man is all alone, it's a common trigger. In this episode I share 3 specific things you can do to make sure that those periods of being alone won't ca...

3 Touko 202420min

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