134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time

133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time

The idea of being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. After all, a “personality disorder” is a serious thing… But what if people slinging this diagnosis have been wrong the whol...

22 Helmi 202430min

132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...

15 Helmi 202419min

131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It

131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It

Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...

8 Helmi 202421min

130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another

130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another

It's very easy for men to switch one bad coping mechanism (pornography) for another (food, video games, social media, TV, etc.). Some people might see those things as far less harmful, so they allow t...

1 Helmi 202419min

129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use

129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use

In a relationship, having a strong feeling of security is so important. When pornography addiction or habit is discovered, it completely undermines the security that she feels. This causes lots of iss...

25 Tammi 202424min

128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love

128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love

Lots of people struggle with feelings of low self worth, unworthiness, inadequacy and a lack of self love. Affirmations and being positive doesn’t seem to stick because we don’t actually believe the g...

18 Tammi 202431min

127: The Key to Addressing Her Sadness If It Feels Like You’re Not Making Progress

127: The Key to Addressing Her Sadness If It Feels Like You’re Not Making Progress

Have you ever had a good day with your spouse, then out of nowhere, you get hit with a wave of deep sadness. Then you share the sadness and the conversation spirals and he doesn’t say much in response...

11 Tammi 202426min

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