134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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126: The Damage of Pornography Use and Deception Can Be Healed – Here’s How

126: The Damage of Pornography Use and Deception Can Be Healed – Here’s How

When a pornography addiction or habit is discovered in a relationship, it causes significant damage. Trust is broken, there's a lack of emotional safety, and it often causes a woman to redefine the en...

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125: He Wants to Move Forward, But She’s Still Hurting and Her Wall is Up

125: He Wants to Move Forward, But She’s Still Hurting and Her Wall is Up

Most people don’t want to stay in pain any longer than they already have. They want the process to speed up, to find closure and peace sooner, and move forward with a feeling of resolution… But what i...

28 Joulu 202318min

124: When Seeking Validation Leads to Pornography and/or Physical Infidelity

124: When Seeking Validation Leads to Pornography and/or Physical Infidelity

What do you do when you struggle with feelings of needing validation from a source outside of yourself? Whether it’s sexual attention from a woman, making a lot of money, doing and accomplishing thing...

21 Joulu 202324min

123: Harvard Professor Shares a Critical Factor in Successfully Quitting Pornography

123: Harvard Professor Shares a Critical Factor in Successfully Quitting Pornography

Have you ever wanted to know exactly what it’s going to take to eliminate pornography and have a connected relationship with your spouse? As I have initial calls with men, I often hear them say they a...

14 Joulu 202317min

122: This Conversation Can Unintentionally Harm Your Ability to Directly Address and Resolve Pornography Use

122: This Conversation Can Unintentionally Harm Your Ability to Directly Address and Resolve Pornography Use

When struggling to overcome pornography addiction or a habit, have you ever had the conversation that goes something like this: If there's another relapse again, our marriage is over. If I catch you w...

7 Joulu 202318min

121: Can Having Sex Make it Harder For Him to Overcome Pornography?

121: Can Having Sex Make it Harder For Him to Overcome Pornography?

Can having sex make it hard for him to quit watching pornography?    Is a pornography addiction or habit fueled by sex with a spouse?   The men and women I work with want to have a fulfilling relation...

30 Marras 202316min

120: The 3 Best Ways to Help Her Pain Go Away

120: The 3 Best Ways to Help Her Pain Go Away

When a man struggles with a pornography addiction or habit, it shatters trust and security in his relationship. Most men desperately seek to repair and restore the relationship, but sadly find themse...

24 Marras 202324min

119: Success Story with Kenna and Dave – From Near Divorce to Connection and Safety

119: Success Story with Kenna and Dave – From Near Divorce to Connection and Safety

Have you ever contemplated ending your relationship because of the hurt and pain you’re feeling?  Or because of broken communication that leads to fights or distance and you're not sure how to repair...

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