Sexistential U5 Tammi 2020

S2, Episode 1: Flirting and Seduction

Janis and Rachel introduce the Circle of Sexuality that covers Sexualization & Power. Janis bemoans the fact that talking about sexual violence is such a norm that it's just another day ending in Y, and the two reflect on their flirting game, and what comes to mind when they hear the word "seduction."

The identified elements of the sexualization & power circle are:

flirting & seduction
media messages/images,
withholding sex,
sexual harassment,
incest and rape.

Quote:

"The quality of Game is much more about being honest and being yourself than being smooth. It's not about small talk, filling the space, or easing the awkwardness. It's letting true desire and curiosity come to the forefront of an interaction." - Adrienne Maree Brown, Pleasure Activism

Quote:

"Seducers are people who understand the tremendous power..."

- Robert Greene, The Concise Art of Seduction

Love Languages

Zahira Kelly-Cabrera

Relationship Anarchy Manifesto

Pick Up Artists and Rape Culture

The Jeremy (That one is just for fun lol)

Why Men Need Platonic Touch

The Lack of Gentle Platonic Touch in Men's Lives is a Killer

Q to the audience: What are some of your experiences with seduction and/or flirting?

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What are the limits of corporate entities sharing our DNA?

This is a manifesto like rambling about DNA ancestry organizations.

11 Touko 20217min

S2 Episode 7: Healing and Teaching through Sexualization and Power

Janis and Rachel reflect on the process of creating Season 2 of Sexistential U, including how we heal and practice self-care through experiences of sexualization and power, and how we understand our r...

29 Maalis 202056min

Season 2 Episode 6: Intimate Partner Violence

Rachel and Janis talk about intimate partner violence, the warning signs, why it's hard to leave, who gets left out of the conversation about IPV (the invisible victim/survivors), the idea that "hurt ...

15 Maalis 202056min

Season 2 Episode 5: Incest & Rape

Janis and Rachel talk about dynamics of sexualization and power inherent in incest and rape both from an intellectual/fantasy perspective and in the context of real life power dynamics and harm.

1 Maalis 202058min

S2 Ep 4: Sexual Harassment

Rachel and Janis discuss sexual harassment both IRL and online.

16 Helmi 20201h 1min

S2 Episode 3: Withholding Sex

Rachel and Janis talk about the complicated phenomenon of withholding sex to get what you want in a relationship and the gender norms it operates along.

2 Helmi 202059min

S2 Ep 2: Media Messages

Rachel and Janis discuss movies, TV, songs, books, all the ways we were taught about sexualization and power without even really knowing it. Also, Janis COMPLETELY confuses Big Little Lies with Sharp ...

19 Tammi 20201h 1min