#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

In today's solo episode I'm talking all about the could haves and should haves that we all experience post break up. Where you're up at night replaying every conversation you had with your ex trying to figure out what went wrong or obsessing about what you could have done differently so the break up didn't happen. The could haves and should haves are a very universal part of a break up but they can be so destructive. In this episode I talk about why we obsess on them, why it's so harmful to break up recovery, the different between shaming and learning, and how to stop yourself from obsessing about them too much.

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#300 Managing Anxiety and Breakup Burnout with Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein

#300 Managing Anxiety and Breakup Burnout with Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein

In today’s expert episode I’m joined by Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein, a licensed psychologist and wellness consultant who specializes in anxiety and burnout. I was drawn to her unique perspective on anxiety...

16 Joulu 202543min

#299 How Keeping Secrets Sabotages Your Breakup Recovery

#299 How Keeping Secrets Sabotages Your Breakup Recovery

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into the topic of secrets and their role in breakups. I explore why we tend to keep certain things hidden after a breakup—whether it's to save face, avoid embarrass...

9 Joulu 202523min

#298 The Five Habits of Hope with Dr. Julia Garcia

#298 The Five Habits of Hope with Dr. Julia Garcia

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Julia Garcia, psychologist and author of the new book The Five Habits of Hope. We talk about how hope can be a real tool for growth and healing, rather tha...

2 Joulu 202547min

#297 How Romcoms Gave Us Unrealistic Breakup Expectations

#297 How Romcoms Gave Us Unrealistic Breakup Expectations

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving deep into a topic that’s come up a lot in the background of other episodes, but today I’m bringing it all together—what romcoms got wrong about breakups and relatio...

25 Marras 202525min

#296 Navigating In-Law Dynamics and Boundaries with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

#296 Navigating In-Law Dynamics and Boundaries with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

In today’s episode, I’m interviewing Dr. Tracy Dalgleish about her brand new book You, Your Husband, and His Mother. We dive into the impact of outside influences—especially in-laws—on relationships, ...

18 Marras 202549min

#295 How Detachment Can Transform Your Breakup Recovery with Sabrina Bendory

#295 How Detachment Can Transform Your Breakup Recovery with Sabrina Bendory

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by relationship and confidence coach Sabrina Bendory, host of the "You Will Be Okay" podcast and author of the new book Detached. We dive deep into the meaning of...

11 Marras 202548min

#294 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant Attachments with Julie Mennano

#294 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant Attachments with Julie Mennano

In today's expert episode, I'm interviewing Julie Mennano, who you might know from her Secure Love podcast or her super insightful Instagram account @thesecurerelationship. Julie is an attachment expe...

4 Marras 202545min

#293 How to Feel Safe in Relationships with Jessica Baum

#293 How to Feel Safe in Relationships with Jessica Baum

In today’s episode, I’m welcoming back Jessica Baum, licensed mental health counselor, relationship expert, and author of the new book Safe (out today!). We dive into what it truly means to feel safe ...

29 Loka 202544min

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