Episode 48 - Kinking Under The Influence

We often hear in the kink lifestyle that submission is a gift. But is it? You can't take a gift back but you can rescind your submission. And if submission is a gift, then what about dominance? Should...

19 Marras 202156min

When we think of kink including floggers, wax play, or restraints, we generally don’t include disabled people in that image. And why don't we? Being disabled shouldn't cut you out of the kink scene. F...

12 Marras 20211h 8min

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And what about people who us...

5 Marras 202159min

Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example...

29 Loka 202150min

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and ...

22 Loka 20211h 11min

Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more taboo then ever. But these kink...

15 Loka 20211h 27min

As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own twisted version of The Newlywed Game in front of ...

11 Loka 202127min

We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of looking for a kinky partner. We talk a...

8 Loka 20211h 12min