28. The Validation Vending Machine

28. The Validation Vending Machine

Do you feel like the behaviour of the people in your life has the power to make you feel TERRIBLE about yourself or AMAZING? Do you find yourself feeling very insecure in your relationships and wishing people would change so you could feel better? When we base our self worth on the way others think, feel and act towards us - we naturally end up using them as validation vending machines... wanting them to spit out validation and make us feel 'good enough' whenever we want them to. Listen ...

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174. Are we incompatible? Or is this just my anxious thoughts?

174. Are we incompatible? Or is this just my anxious thoughts?

Do you ever wonder if you and the person you’re dating are actually just incompatible? Maybe you know you have some mind drama and insecurities to clear up - but also question if… maybe I’m just with...

20 Helmi 23min

173. The fear of being cheated on

173. The fear of being cheated on

Are you terrified of being cheated on? If so - today’s episode is for you. I’m talking all about the deeper beliefs fuelling the fear of being cheated on. Some will resonate with you, others won’t. ...

13 Helmi 29min

172. How to actually feel more secure

172. How to actually feel more secure

Most of us are familiar with what it’s like to feel insecure. And you may find yourself wishing or saying out loud that you want to work on feeling more secure. Most of us go about creating feelings ...

30 Tammi 21min

171. "Triggered by my partner watching porn" (Real-life coaching)

171. "Triggered by my partner watching porn" (Real-life coaching)

I want to give you a little insight as to what coaching can look like for real life people - with real life relationship struggles. And so I’m using the example of a past client of mine who felt trig...

23 Tammi 28min

170. Are you stuck in the Validation Cycle?

170. Are you stuck in the Validation Cycle?

Do you find yourself becoming obsessed with people that are hot and cold towards you - while ignoring the people that are consistently available and there for you? Do you feel like your romantic relat...

16 Tammi 28min

169. How to actually change your patterns in 2026

169. How to actually change your patterns in 2026

When you feel anxious or insecure, do you jump straight to action? Perhaps re-reading your messages? Checking when they were last online? Or messaging your group chat? Do you keep repeating the same a...

9 Tammi 20min

168. Signs of self abandonment in relationships

168. Signs of self abandonment in relationships

Do other people’s happiness tend to get put before your own? Does the thought of being alone terrify you? And do you feel like you cling to relationships with others in an attempt to feel safe? If so ...

2 Tammi 18min

167. You don't need a new you in 2026 (What you need instead)

167. You don't need a new you in 2026 (What you need instead)

Have you set some goals or resolutions for 2026? And are you filled with hope for the year ahead? Or do you kind of think resolutions are pointless.. Because you never succeed at them anyway? Whicheve...

26 Joulu 202512min

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