Do you have an anti-fragile relationship? feat. Candice Horbacz

This week Rory Uphold is joined by Candice Horbacz (AKA Eva Lovia) a former Porn Star turned entrepreneur slash wife and mom. They discuss the truth about the adult entertainment industry and how Candice's time in porn actually helped her strengthen not only her relationship with her husband but her relationship with herself. Plus! She gives us tips and tricks from hot date night ideas to how to have uncomfortable conversations and so much more...

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Summary

Candice Horback, a successful adult entertainment performer, shares her journey into the industry and the challenges she faced. She discusses the perception and stigma surrounding the industry and the reality of porn versus real-life sex plus pros and cons of incorporating it into a relationship. Candice and Rory discuss the concept of anti-fragile relationships and how being in the porn industry has impacted Candice's marriage. They share advice on approaching difficult conversations in relationships and creating a safe space for communication.

Takeaways

• Pornography should not be seen as a reflection of real-life sex.
• The perception of cheating in relation to porn is often based on societal biases and double standards.
• The porn industry can amplify insecurities and trigger negative reactions in individuals who are not comfortable with their own sexuality.
• Anti-fragile relationships are built on open communication, honesty, and the ability to navigate challenges together.
• Approaching difficult conversations in relationships requires creating a safe space, being patient, and allowing each partner to express themselves fully.
• Relationships go through ups and downs, and it's important to recognize and navigate these changes together.
• The S*xual Buffet exercise can bring playfulness and creativity into a relationship by exploring new sexual experiences and desires.

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