Ep 187: The Power Of Synchronicity And Intention

Start Your Transformation Now I wonder if you’ve noticed how much of your peace you give up and give away? Seemingly not a big deal but what you’re really giving up is your peace-of-mind, which is something you’ve been chasing most of your life. Pretty much everything you want in life you want it because you think it’s going to bring you peace-of-mind. The best example is money. Most likely you don’t want it just to want it, you want it because it’s going to “give” you something: security, social status, freedom and such. In this episode I discuss: [3:29] Why the things that you want most steal most of your peace-of-mind. [3:49] How chasing peace is living from the outside in, backwards. [6:55] What steals your internal peace [20:22] Why peace-of-mind is so vital to your performance and well being. And much more. When you quiet your mind you become the highest version of your BEing. A quiet mind is your unlimited potential expressing itself. Though this is a simple episode, the message is one of the most powerful ones you’ll ever hear. Transformational Takeaway: You can’t do anything well without peace-of-mind. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

12 Kesä 201924min

Start Your Transformation Now This is not at all an uncommon question. Actually, I’m quite surprised at the number of relationships that fall into this category. One person wants to be happy, and the other grows as fast as a tortoise. I see it all the time, one person is growing, and the other is not. What usually happens is that one will stop growing and fall back into old patterns so as not to disturb the relationship, that’s most revalent, or both will decide to grow.  What I know is that the more misaligned the identities become the wider the gap in connection and relationship. In this episode I talk about: [1:43] A simple way to know if a person if good for you or not [5:16] Working from the inside out in relationships [32:23] Why you have no power if you’re afraid to leave the relationship [33:19] Why you must be 100% responsible for your own happiness [34:02] How you’re not responsible for your partner’s feelings As well, if you’ve been listening to my podcast for a while, you know I go a lot deeper than what is mentioned here. Transformational Takeaway: You can be happy anywhere when you’re 100% responsible for yourself. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

10 Kesä 201937min

Start Your Transformation Now How many times have you started something: working out, a new work regimen or wanting to do something new and you found yourself falling off track in just a few short weeks? It’s not your fault. You can thank the reptilian part of your brain for pulling you off track. However, that part of your brain is pulling you off track to keep you on track with your old habits, whether they serve you or not. Most people think they need the motivation to get things done, but that’s not necessarily true. Wanting motivation is wanting to do what you’re not already subconsciously and “brain” programmed to do. In this episode I talk about: [2:14] What has to precede motivation if you want to stay on track [3:13] How you’re probably starting in the wrong place “psychologically” with motivation [3:34] What sustains motivation [6:08] Why commitment most often needs to precede motivation [6:40] How self-integrity comes can keep you on track [22:11] Why motivation is driven by unconscious habits And much more… Stop working from motivation and start working from commitments and unconscious brain-based habits and see how quickly your life transforms! Transformational Takeaway: Motivation is sustained from your commitments, and your commitments are driven by your brain based habits. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

5 Kesä 201925min

Start Your Transformation Now I answer this question in two parts because it can be answered two ways. First, one of the biggest causes of unhappiness is that people refuse to accept life as it is at the moment. Most people are living in the past or the future and complaining about where they are not.  The “space” between where you are and your story about where you think you should be is what I call the “unhappiness gap for many people. We have to accept “what is” so that we can change and transform what is. Secondly, about seeing things as we want them to be. Einstein said, “Your imagination is your preview of coming attractions” in your life. Whatever you imagine, consistently, is what you program your unconscious mind with. Research demonstrates that poor people imagine staying poor and rich people imagine and daydream staying rich, hence, programming that manifest as behavior. Transformational Takeaway: Accept life as it is in the moment and be grateful for all your blessings in life and next, focus on what you want, not on what you do not have. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

3 Kesä 201922min

Start Your Transformation Now Fear, a dreadful disease of the mind. The one thing that keeps most people trapped in old ways, old relationships and old circumstances. Fear robs you of possibility and opportunity and it eats away at life like a parasite. One of the most powerful things we can do in this lifetime is to learn to transcend fear. When we do, what’s unknown becomes possible and what was once impossible becomes possible. In this episode I talk about fear from a higher perspective, from beyond simple irrational brain based fear. In this episode I discuss: [3:16] How most fear is related to survival but fearful thoughts are most times simply thinking of the past or future [5:57] Why fear is the cause of all suffering [6:34] Why when you focus on fear in grows in your awareness [8:30] How embracing our own death sets us free from ours fears [10:36] There are brain based fears which are addressed in another episodes, however, most fears are an illusion of the mind [19:21] And, the one paradigm that you can work from that sets you free from fear at the highest level of your being Listen to this episode and shift your perspective on the illusion of fear. Transformational Takeaway: Everything always has been, is now and will always be fine. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

29 Touko 201930min

Start Your Transformation Now “Can I fully overcome my negative thoughts even if I've been believing them for 40 years?” This is Jennifer’s question on this week’s Q&A episode. If you’re like Jennifer who has been battling over negative thoughts, then you’re going to love this episode. Negative thoughts are simply thinking. And a large portion of your thinking comes from your past experiences, which makes beliefs subjective interpretations. But how exactly do you define negative thinking? And to what degree are you negative? How will you know if you have overcome your negative thoughts? And what’s in it for you if you have overcome them? In this episode I discuss: [5:52] How beliefs could be subjective [7:24] How beliefs could be “archaic” [9:28] The 3 types of beliefs and how it creates a ripple effect in your life [15:05] How looking for contrary evidence of your negative beliefs could help you overcome it [22:56] How you move your attention from negative thoughts by using sub-modalities I expound on moving the attention to positive thoughts in the most simple and understandable manner through a brain-based dialogue. And a lot more… Transformational Takeaway: Your negative thinking was learned through events that happened many years ago. You made interpretations, created stories, then you created the belief. Then the belief is completely unconscious. Your negative thinking is nothing more than habitual. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

27 Touko 201929min

Start Your Transformation Now Have you ever been triggered by someone or with something that makes you really frustrated and annoyed? After you listen to this episode, you’ll be amazed at how you can start treating your triggers as a blessing. Triggers may be a huge source of stress for you, but you’ll come to understand why it’s a great opportunity for you to evolve and grow. In this episode I discuss: [2:53] How it could be a matter of your value judgment when you are being triggered [10:23] Whether your triggers are external or internal [12:29] What you actually see in you when you get triggered [15:38] How triggers affect you physically [16:43] How operating in a state of internal peace affects the way you react to triggers. [20:07] How you can overcome inevitable triggers when you want to maintain a state of internal peace. And so much more… Transformational Takeaway: Dalai Lama: “Let no one’s behavior steal your internal peace.” Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

22 Touko 201924min

Start Your Transformation Now If you’ve ever struggled with asking for money or collecting it from clients or people, then you’re going to love this episode. In this Q & A episode Andrew asks, “I am attracting clients who don’t pay me, how do I stop this?” As you’ll hear in this episode, you’re not alone if you experience this very same thing. And what you have to understand is that more than likely it’s a matter of your subconscious identity and value relative to money. In this episode I discuss: [5:46] How it could be a matter of marketing [10:41] How people are afraid to charge what they are worth. [11:54] Why lowering your prices is not in anyone’s best interest. [13:28] Why you can charge whatever you want as long as you deliver. [14:45] How desperation chases away money. [16:48] How body language affects our credibility to get paid for our worth or our services’ worth [21:35] The reason it’s important to look like you have money if you ask for money. I also talk about the paradigm you want to work from mentally if you want to transform the money you get paid from clients. Transformational Takeaway: What characteristics and ways of BEing would you need to be, to attract and create the level of money you desire? Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

20 Touko 201930min