Ep 234: Are You Living Your Life By Convenience?

Start Your Transformation Now Do you love where you are in life right now? Happy with your money? Your job? Your relationships? This will be a short write up because it all comes to this: Where you are in life right now you have chosen to be there. Yep, it’s your choice. Life Is Choice. Life is a continuous process of choice which means “Life IS Choice.” In this episode I talk about: [1:32] Unconscious V Conscious choice [2:45] The definition of choice [4:08] Making choices before you find yourself having to make a choice [12:47] Why choosing from your feelings is self-sabotage [20:52] And, the ultimate choice you have made in your life. This is a simple episode and a powerful one. When you fully embrace the power of choice your life will change forever. Transformational Takeaway: If you don’t like where you are in life, start making different choices Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

2 Loka 201925min

Start Your Transformation Now Ever decided you wanted to change your life, you took steps to make it happen and before you knew it, you were right back in your old situation? Well, if that’s you, you’re not alone because the reason you go back to your old ways is that you change on the outside but not on the inside. You change your circumstances but not your subconscious identity, and when you only do that, you soon revert back to your old ways. In this episode I talk about: [4:32] Why your money situation never changes [5:00] How I myself changed on the outside and didn’t change on the inside [9:22] Are you cut out for certain types of careers and the money around that? [13:24] What victim mentality is [15:25] The three aspects of victim mentality And, as I say on each episode’s description, much, much more. The simple truth is this, until you leave your comfort zones and until you change your subconscious identity, nothing is going to change for you in your life. Transformational Takeaway: If you don’t have it on the inside, you won’t have it on the outside. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

30 Syys 201931min

Start Your Transformation Now Every time you judge someone, you are not judging them, they are reflecting you back to yourself. This episode is about how we’re mirrors for each other and how when people judge you, they are not judging you, they are just reacting to who they think you are, based upon who they are. You’ve heard me say before, most people’s two biggest fears are the fear of being abandoned and the fear of inadequacy. These fears keep most people trapped for a lifetime, it’s time to release them. In this episode I talk about: [3:50] How many times your fear is rooted in personal insecurity [5:32] How people judge out of personal insecurity [9:36] How many times you judge people for judging you [12:05] How you judge yourself when others judge you [12:52] Why people judge [16:36] Why drives the fear of rejection And, like I say in every episode recap, much, much more… In this episode I talk about a few different ways to start BEing so the fear of judgement by others no longer bothers you. When you change how you interpret judgment, the fear of judgement goes Away. Transformational Takeaway: People are not judging YOU, they are telling you who they are. And, you are going to be judged, no matter what so do, so do what you love. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

25 Syys 201929min

Start Your Transformation Now Destructive habits? Self-sabotaging yourself over and over? Have you considered this reflects your self-worth? Do you have the best of intentions but go back to doing destructive things? If so, you’re going to love this episode because as the title says, it’s all about your self worth and habits. In this episode I talk about: [2:33] How self worth is an epidemic issue [3:48] How you’ve been told NO most of your life and you deny yourself [6:07] The way I used to disguise binge drinking, sabotage [8:24] An extraordinary poem, mindset, to raise our kinds by [11:17] How some people use low self worth to achieve great things And, much much more. You’ll hear me say, “We don’t destroy what we love.” If you’re into self-sabotaging habits you’ll get a lot from this episode. Transformational Takeaway: We treat ourselves like we perceive ourselves. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

23 Syys 201936min

Start Your Transformation Now How many times have you set goals for yourself only to find that you’re right back into your old patterns and you never achieve what you think that you want? If you’re like most people, that is your exact pattern: Wanting a goal but not achieving it because you can’t shake loose of your old patterns and habits. In the first sentence I said, “What you think that you want.” What you think that you want is not what you get because you get your habits and they don’t come from the “thinking” part of your brain. In this episode I talk about: [2:44] The three largest parts of your brain and how they function [10:38] How your reptilian brain sabotages your goals [12:19] Why your reptilian brain operates from survival and predictability [13:09] Why what you think you want is usually not what you get [15:09] And how to dissociate from the reptilian brain habits I have created episodes on habits but this one dives deeper into the exact way the reptilian brain sabotages your goals and what you think that you want. Transformational Takeaway: Your goals come from your prefrontal cortex “thinking” brain and your habits come from your reptilian brain. They battle each other and you have to disassociate from your reptilian brain habits. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

18 Syys 201920min

Start Your Transformation Now If you’ve ever had anxiety, depression or PTSD you know how debilitating it can be and how painful it can be. I’ve been there. Many years ago I had depression, anxiety and panic attacks and I used my mind to eliminate it all. What I can do, you can do. You don’t have to be in pain because you can use the power of your mind to heal yourself, both mentally and physically. In this episode I talk about: [2:51] All the professional organizations that endorse hypnosis [4:47] Some of the things that hypnosis can help heal [10:27] The one thing that hypnosis cannot change [11:18] What to look for in a hypnotist [12:21] One of the processes I used to help a client eliminate anxiety [24:30] Why most healthcare professionals don’t know about hypnosis And much more. This is a very casual episode and I talk about how important it can be for you to learn this life skill or seek out a qualified hypnotist. In most cases and for most people, it can make dramatic changes in your life. Transformational Takeaway: You can change almost everything in your life and health using self-hypnosis and the power of your mind. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

16 Syys 201931min

Start Your Transformation Now It’s one of your greatest abilities, yet it’s one of the most under used abilities we have. What is it? Your sense and intuition. We’re not limited to the five senses, yet this is the extent of our senses that most of us use. As a cosmic being you have a higher sense, a sixth sense. This is your inborn ability to access higher wisdom that pertains to your life. In this episode I talk about: [8:00] Higher mind and lower mind [9:33] Why almost no animals were found dead in the 2004 Indonesian tsunami [11:29] Why silence of mind is the only way to access your higher intuition [12:30] Why everything is about your awareness [27:36] How spending time in complete silence can help you And, I offer 4 different ways to develop your higher sense and intuition. I cannot stress enough how important it is to your well-being that you start to develop your higher senses. Sense has many times kept people alive and safe when they’ve listened to their higher wisdom and knowing. Using your sense is one of your greatest abilities. Listen and start developing yours. Transformational Takeaway: Silence is the heart of transformation. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

11 Syys 201938min

Start Your Transformation Now If you’re struggling with your relationship or business growth then you’re going to love this episode. When Lisa started working with me, she’s acknowledged that her life was a “hot mess.” She was not maximizing her business growth, her marriage was very troubled and she was working through many of her own issues. Specifically, she was enabling her destructive relationship and she didn’t know how to get past that.  In this episode Lisa talks about how she overcame all this and you’ll hear in her voice how happy she is today. In this episode we talk about: [7:43] Some of the challenges in her relationship with her husband [8:07] How she stopped being an “enabler” [10:50] How her stories about herself kept her “crying all the time” [16:13] The power of choice in life [22:10] Self-Care and self responsibility [39:57] Inner Alignment [42:23] Victim mentality And, of course, a lot more, and you know that. If you feel like you’re swimming upstream in life, your relationship is taxed and your business is not growing – then this episode is for you. Transformational Takeaway: Your stories to yourself will control your life! Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

9 Syys 201953min